離別贈言
惟雯說故事
這是一位班主任給學生的離別贈言—-
各位家長、領導、老師、同學們：
大家下午好！
又到畢業季。有幸站在這裡，在諸位即將翻開人生新篇章的時候，本著扶上馬、送一程的原則，既代表在座的每位老師，也代表我自己，不抒情，不煽情，接地氣地和大家聊幾句實在的話。
首先恭喜你，穿過了人生第一個黑暗隧道，爬上了一個小土坡，從此以後，再碰到什麼大考小考，天空就會飄來N個字“那都不是事兒”。
當人從長時間的緊張疲憊中，一下解脫出來，十有八九會進入失重狀態，苦了那麼久，你想盡情吃喝玩樂，帶點報復和肆意的快感，很正常，我只想提醒你，安全，安全至上！
日子還長，你慢慢來——除此以外，父母生你容易，養你不易，你的安全不屬於你自己，請你，且樂且珍惜。
我猜你吃喝玩樂兩個禮拜以後，八成就會進入那麼個狀態——睡得昏天暗地，醒得暈頭漲腦，目光呆滯地洗漱，蓬頭垢臉地上網，熱火朝天地聊天，兩眼賊光地打遊戲，父母心疼你苦了太久，懶得跟你大呼小叫，睜一眼閉一眼，由著你吧，然後你人就慢慢頹了，幹啥都不起勁，一心等開學。
三個月說長也短，說話間你就上大學了，然後你會發現，你上當了！
大學沒有想像的那麼自由和高大上，搞不好校舍沒有咱們的中學洋氣，課程比中學還乏味枯燥。
你的中學老師，雖然是一群情智商都不怎麼高的人，但是他們謹慎膽小，善良心好，陪你成長，一起歡笑。什麼時候想起來，都可以很溫暖。
然後，你的大學記憶裡，同學永遠比老師清晰。當然，大學裡也可以碰到影響你一生的人生導師，看你運氣。
一、關於暑假。
這個假期，我給你一些可行的建議：報個名，去把駕照考了；約幾個靠譜的朋友來趟靠譜的旅行；去聽音樂會買暢銷書看熱門電影；去把一直想學的吉他學了，看你想看的書，幹你一直想幹的事兒。動起來，你會發現生活很美好，怎麼都比在家傻宅著強。
但是，這個假期最重要的事兒不是瞎玩，而是陪父母，哄他們開心，修補一下被應試教育折磨得千瘡百孔的親子關係。你的人生，從某種意義上講，和父母的分離已然開始了。在家的時間越來越少，注意力開始無限外放和分散，唯獨注意不到身後逐日衰老的兩個人。我18歲離家求學後，幾乎再也沒有跟父母相處超過一個月的時間，我一直以為來日方長，不知道一向健康的父母會在10年之內相繼離我而去，沒有孝敬過他們，更談不上好好的陪伴，終生遺憾。這世上有很多事都是“此情可待成追憶，只是當時已惘然”，人生無常，歲月無情，如果你把我的話聽進去了，一切都來得及。
二、關於大學。
人的核心競爭力，有一半以上都來自專業以外的不急之務，譬如多年閱讀累積出的大智慧，譬如長期鍛煉而來的好身體，譬如良好的家庭教養內涵，譬如人際溝通表達能力，譬如人脈資源，等等。所以，在大學裡，除了專業學習以外，你要做的事兒還很多。
首先要廣泛閱讀，讀羅素說的“沒用的書”——讀“無用的書”，日後方能做“有用的人”。俞敏洪談到他的大學生活時，說：“不管北大給了我什麼樣的影響，大學期間讀的500本書，才是真正決定我人生和未來的關鍵。”如果這四年你沒有荒廢，未來四十年你就有可能開始的相對從容。
去尋找所有能營養你的東西，那些跟藝術、跟美、跟普世價值有關的東西。譬如聽一些好的音樂，既能讓你血脈噴張，也可以讓你沉默安詳；看一些經典好片，體會光影背後的深邃；還有那些有品質的講座、培訓、脫口秀和公開課，能吸收就不要錯過了。
20歲前後是人生的上升期，做加法，多讀書、廣交友、勤做事。“聽君一席話，勝讀十年書。”跟有“料”的人做朋友，他們剛從你的年紀走過，理解你的想法和困惑，有很多經驗和教訓值得借鑒吸取，這會讓你在未來三五年內少走不少彎路。
多做運動，切莫放縱。因為年輕，所有的身體指標良好到會讓你失去警惕性。我親眼見過在企業招聘中千里挑一勝出的大學生，在隨後的體檢中慘遭淘汰，拿著報告單在醫院走廊裡放聲痛哭，懺悔自己四年疏於運動，作息不規律等等。
三、關於處世。
越是年輕，越要有意識地積累智慧，辯證思維，不偏激地看問題，尤其不要在網上胡亂吐槽洩憤，逞口舌之快，做無用之功。與其抱怨，不如實幹。
甘迺迪說“不要總是問國家為你做了什麼，你要常問自己為國家做了什麼”，這話適用于全世界的年輕人，用來解讀個人和國家的關係。
以一己之力，或許對全域沒有大的改觀，但是魯迅先生早說過：世上本沒有路，走的人多了，也就成了路。借一句網路金句，更加直白簡單——“你有陽光，中國就不會黑暗。”
總之，帶正知正見去生活，努力讓自己內心強大，就無需在意眾聲喧嘩！好好珍惜這四年，這幾年在你整個人生過程中的影響之大，你以後就知道了。
感謝在座的同學們，我們相伴三年，緣牽一生。青春是人生最美的歌，願你們好好譜寫，唱響未來的每一個日子，無怨無悔！謝謝各位！
文章來源:張彤（深圳實驗學校語文老師）
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