天不言自高

天不言自高

惟雯說故事

 

若別人稱讚叫「口碑」,若自我標榜叫「吹噓」。

 

從「誇」字來看,上面是個「大」,下面是個「虧」,故可以這樣理解和解釋—-一個自大的人,最終是要吃大虧的。

 

晚清左宗棠西征,收復了新疆,立下了不世之功。

但左宗棠本來就有「文人喜大言」的毛病,立功後更是見人就談自己的西征經歷。

 

有人找他辦事,不管是公事、還是私事,左宗棠三言兩語就能把事情繞到西征上面去,讓對方無可奈何。

 

左宗棠原是有本事的人,但吹噓自誇的功夫也確實不賴,故受人詬病,所以標榜自己的話,我們最好不說。

 

其實真正有學識有涵養的人,是不用開口標榜自己的,「天不言自高,地不言自厚」。

 

反而,一個自大、自滿的人,必定沈醉在他的自大、自滿,反而凸顥他的無知、無能。因此,可能永遠無知、無能下去,最終必定會在不斷地自我膨脹和莽撞行事中吃大虧。

 

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