損人反害己
惟雯說故事
《菜根譚》：「不責人小過，不發人陰私，不念人舊惡，此三者可以養德，亦可遠害！」
口是傷人斧，言是割舌刀，知人不必言盡，留些口德。
尤其不要攻人短處，揭人瘡疤，甚至構陷別人，以免害人害己。
因為在生活中，害人者的結局往往是「以害人始，以害己終」。
有這樣一個寓言故事：
古時候，京城有一個洗衣匠，他的店鋪生意很好，而他的鄰居是一個陶匠，陶匠的生意卻很蕭條。
陶匠認為是洗衣匠的店鋪影響了自己店鋪的風水，就起了害人之心。
他求見國王，說洗衣匠有祖傳的技藝，能把黑象洗成白象。
國王很高興，因為這個國家只有黑象，而白象被視為吉祥的象徵、繁榮富強的預兆，於是下令洗衣匠把黑象洗成白象。
洗衣匠不敢抗旨，回家後，不住地嘆氣。
他的妻子問清楚原因，給他出了一個主意。
第二天，洗衣匠去見國王說：「我家的洗衣盆太小了，容不下一頭大象，請陛下先下令造一個裝得下一頭大象的陶盆。」
於是，國王命令陶匠在三天內造出一個可以容納一頭大象的陶盆來。
這下陶匠傻眼了，最終因造不出來，而被國王處死。
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