《原諒生活的不完美》
惟雯說故事
有個叫廖智的女人,2008年,她23歲,是個舞蹈老師,有一個11個月大的可愛女兒。
然而,汶川地震中,她和女兒被埋了26小時。
她眼睜睜看著女兒在身邊不行了,小小的身體變涼變硬。
而她勉強撐到獲救,但也不幸截肢,失去了雙腿。
雪上加霜的是,那年除夕,老公跟她離了婚。
她說:“你們可以看著我這麼想:這人多慘,雙腿沒了,女兒沒了,老公也不要她了……”
她消沉過一陣子。整天吃,胖了14斤。
但是慢慢的,她堅強了起來。
她裝了義肢,練習走路,練習跳舞,參加演出。
2013年雅安地震後,廖智趕去災區幫忙,戴著義肢送糧食、送衣服、搭帳篷。
碰巧有人拍下了這張酷似張柏芝的照片,她隨即在網上紅了,被稱為“最美志願者”。
廖智從來不用“殘疾人”來定義自己。
她化妝,跳舞,幹活,穿高跟鞋,該幹嘛就幹嘛。
她也總是很樂觀,自信熱情,充滿能量。
如果她不說,沒有人能看出她經歷了那麼多倒霉事。
而生活就是這樣,你對它笑,它就對你笑。
2013年,廖智認識了一個一米八六的台灣男孩,國外名校碩士。
男孩愛上了這個生命力旺盛的漂亮姑娘,視她如珍寶。
倆人很快結婚,現在已經有了兩個孩子。一家四口,幸福滿滿。
廖智說:是的,這個人生不完美,但我足夠感恩。
我很喜歡這句話,也很欣賞這種人生態度。
有的人,可能跟老媽吵一架就跳樓了。
而有的人,腿沒了,女兒沒了,老公跑了,卻還能活得幸福漂亮,精彩紛呈。
也許人幸福與否,真的都在於自己的選擇。
有人沒了腿,每天在家痛哭,後悔,怨恨,是一輩子。
而有人接受這一切不完美,重振旗鼓,再打馬揚鞭殺進陽光裡,也是一輩子。
後一種很難,但這是最美的路。
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