換位思考

換位思考

惟雯說故事

 

從前有這樣一則故事:

一個主人有一匹千里馬和一頭毛驢,它倆都給主人幹活:驢拉磨,馬馱著主人周遊四方。

 

但是,驢卻經常遭到馬的羞辱。

中午吃飯的時候,馬第九十九次辱駡驢說:“沒出息的傢伙,一天到晚,圍著一個石磨轉去轉來。眼睛還被蒙著,瞎走瞎忙。這樣活著有什麼意思?不如早點死了吧!”

驢再也忍受不了馬的侮辱,傷心得大哭著跑走了。

 

第二天,主人發覺驢不見了,便把馬套到磨上。

馬說:“我志在千里,怎麼能為您拉磨呢?”

主人說:“可我要吃麵啊!沒有驢,總不能囫圇吃麥粒呀!”
說著,主人用布蒙住了馬的眼睛,並在它的屁股上重重地給了一掌。

 

馬無可奈何地跟驢一樣圍著磨轉起圈來。

才拉了一天磨,馬就感到頭昏腦脹,渾身酸疼得受不住了。

它在地上打了一個滾兒,長長地出了一口氣說:“唉!沒想到驢幹這活兒也不容易呀!今後再評論別人一定要先換到它的位置上試試再說。”

 

其實馬幹馬的活,驢幹驢的活,分工明確,各出各的一份力氣。
偏偏馬好事,把驢氣跑,吃了苦頭才知道驢的作用原來也是不可或缺的。

 

所以,做人,不要隨意評論他人。

有些事情好似冰山一角,你只看到了水面上的十分之一,卻忽略了水面下的十分之九。只知其一,不知其二,不可亂胡言。

 

有些事情,沒有得到當事人的認證,就開始隨意曝光,造成的損害,也不是任何人能夠全盤承受的。不分黑白,顛倒是非,切勿瞎亂語。

 

來說是非者,定是是非人。

不要只為滿足自己一時的快感,不顧及他人內心感受。

你要知道:
搬弄是非,一不小心會砸了自己的腳,無中生有,稍有不慎便會自己掉了坑。

謠言就像寫在水裡的字,雖然不長久,但卻流傳飛快,傷害甚廣。

管好自己的嘴,切勿禍從口出!

 

做人將心比心,你會發現:

每個人都有無法去言說的無奈,我們要儘量去理解。

做事換位思考,你會懂得:
人人都有不為外人道的痛苦,我們要儘量去安慰。不要隨意評論他人。

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