《一轉身就是一輩子》
惟雯說故事
這是一篇網路佳文….
我是個很容易急躁的人，
婚後，在許多瑣事上，我都習慣與他計較，爭吵不休。
一天下午，下班回到家。
我打電話告訴他，讓他在下班的路上捎幾個饅頭；他回說—沒問題。
天漸漸地黑下來，我把粥和菜都已經做好了，可是他還沒有回來。
我有些擔憂，又有些生氣。
終於聽到了門響。
他回來了，兩手空空。
「饅頭呢？」我的怒火升騰起來。
「沒買！」他的臉色居然很平靜。
「你讓我怎麼打發今天晚上這頓飯？為甚麼總把我的話當耳邊風？」我氣憤地嚷道。
他一直沒有作聲，等到我發作完畢，他才走到我的身邊，小心地捲起了衣袖
──他的胳膊上居然纏着一層厚厚的紗布！我吃驚地看着他。
「下班的路上，我被一個騎摩托車的人撞傷了。那個人跑掉了，我只好自個兒去醫院包紮。口袋裏的錢全都交了醫藥費，所以就沒有錢買饅頭了。」
他有條不紊地解釋着。
我捧着他的胳膊，想起自己剛才的蠻態很愧疚，好久說不出話來…
「很疼吧？」我終於問。
他搖搖頭：「其實我很慶幸。」
「慶幸？」
「是的，我一直慶幸撞倒我的是一輛摩托車，而不是一輛卡車。否則，我連聽你罵我的機會都沒了。」
我的淚水一下湧了出來，一瞬間，我忽然想起了曾經讀過的一個故事
──兩隻鳥共同生活的故事。
冬天快到了，雄鳥每天辛苦地出去撿果子以備冬。
牠終於撿了滿滿一巢，可是不久後，牠發現果子變少了！
雄鳥責備雌鳥：「撿果子多麼難啊，你居然獨自偷吃了許多。」
雌鳥辯解說：「果子是自己變少的，我沒有偷吃。」
雄鳥不相信，並為雌鳥無力的辯解…感到十分生氣，便啄走了雌鳥。
後來天下了大雨，風乾萎縮的果子被雨水泡得脹大起來，又成了滿滿的一巢。然而此時只剩下雄鳥在整日哀啼：「雌鳥啊，你現在在哪裏？」
當時讀了這個故事，並不是十分在意，也不太明白故事的意思。
但是現在我突然頓悟了…
不要說一巢果子，就是一樹果子，一山果子，一世界果子又有甚麼意義呢？
如果沒有了那隻鳥。
同樣，不要說幾個饅頭，就是一桌佳餚，一千麗服，一幢華屋，一身金飾又有甚麼意義呢？如果，如果…沒有了那個人。
從此，遇事我學會了冷靜。
因為我知道，有時候誤會的代價是很昂貴的，昂貴到讓我們一生都承擔不起。
誠如王永慶先生有個「火柴理論」：
一根火柴棒價值不到一毛錢，一棟房子價值數百萬元，但是一根火柴棒卻可以摧毀一棟房子，可見微不足道的潛在破壞力，一旦發作起來，其攻堅滅頂的力量，無物能禦。
人的情感建立，就像蓋房子一般，需要很長的時間心血慢慢的建立，但人的情感生變，有時只需要一個誤會，甚至是一句話，就能使原本相愛的兩人各分東西形同陌路。
要時刻警愓自己，不要讓情緒的失控，造成不可挽回的結果，畢竟有些事、錯過了就是永遠，有些人、一轉身就是一輩子。
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