管住嘴是教養
惟雯說故事
「言而當，知也；默而當，亦知也。」
語言最能暴露一個人，恰當的時候說話是智慧，沉默的恰當也是一種智慧。
說話，體現了一個人的「教養」—-
知道怎麼說話，知道何時說話，知道不亂說話，是為人處世的基本。
1、不打斷別人說話，是一種教養
會說話是一門學問，說話有分寸是一種教養，
不輕易打斷別人說話是一種禮貌，等人把話說完，是社交禮儀中的基本素養。
當與朋友談論某個話題，對方正在闡述自己的想法，卻被人從中攔截發表新的見解；或是當你興沖沖說著某件事情，他人突然阻止你，說自己聽過時，應該很多人都經歷過，那種如鯁在喉的感覺，讓人不舒服。
我們應該推己及人，耐心的聽別人說話，聽完他人的想法和觀點，再去發表自己的見解，會說話的人，也知道如何閉嘴，不打斷別人的表達，是一種教養。
2、不知道的事情、不亂說，是一種涵養
「謠言止於智者」，在這個謠言滿天飛的時代，許多荒誕的故事都是從胡亂製造、胡亂傳播開始的。
輿論不知道傷害了多少無辜的人，我們都有可能不經意成為輿論的製造者、傳播者。所以要克制自己，不知道的事情不說，體現的不僅是人的涵養，也體現了我們對外物的辨別力。
做一個有辨別力的人，不輕易被影響，遇事有自己的見解，對於不確定的事物，多保留看法，不胡說、不亂傳。
言多必失，說得越多，說錯的機會也就越多，
對於我們不瞭解，不知道的事情，不去亂說是一種涵養。
3、說話周到、將心比心，是一種修養
言語的殺傷力是巨大的，說話周到的人，懂得換位思考。
我們不能小覷，不要覺得自己隨口說出來的話無傷大雅。
當他人處於困境或低谷時，一句善意的話語，會使人倍覺溫暖；
而一句諷刺、挖苦、打擊的話，哪怕是出於無心，也是對自尊心、自信心的摧毀和傷害，讓人羞愧和痛苦。
尤其是對親人朋友，傷人的話殺傷力更是翻倍，
常常無意間傷害到他們，與親密的人相處，更要注意自己說話的方式。
說話先過腦再出口，傷人的話別說，警醒的話圓潤的說，暖心的話多說，能夠考慮他人的感受，好好說話，是一種善良。
「良言一句三冬暖，惡語傷人六月寒。」
別讓嘴巴成為傷人的利器，把握好與人相處說話時的分寸，做一個能言善道、善良的人。
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