一位年輕女董事長的忠告
惟雯說故事
如果你做人想成功，下面就是你必須要做到的：
1.這是個現實的社會，感情不能當飯吃，貧窮夫妻百事哀。
不要相信電影裡的故事情節，那只是個供許多陌生人喧囂情感的場所。只有不理智和不現實的人才相信⋯⋯
2.給自己定目標，一年，兩年，五年，也許你出生不如別人好，通過努力，往往可以改變70%的命運。破罐子破摔只能和懦弱做朋友。
3.朋友請你吃飯，不要覺得理所當然，請禮尚往來，否則你的名聲會越來越差。
4.好朋友裡面，一定要培養出一個知己，不要以為你有多麼八面玲瓏，到處是朋友，最後真心對你的，只有一個，相信我。
5.不要相信算卦星座命理，那是哄小朋友的，命運掌握在自己手中。坐在家裡等什麼房子，車子，還不如睡一覺做個好夢。
6.不喜歡的人少接觸，但別在背後說壞話，說是非之人，必定是是非之人，謹記，禍從口出。
7.少玩遊戲，這不是韓國，你打不出房子車子還有資本。可以有愛好，但要把握尺度，少玩農場，牧場，斗地主等一些高度吸引人思想的晉級遊戲，也許你的級別很高，但不代表你有多麼成功，反而會影響和占據你成功的時間。
8.是人都有惰性，這是與生俱來的，但是我們後天可以改變這種惰性，因為有很多人正在改變。對於某種事物或是生意不要等別人做到了，我才想到。不要等別人已經賺到錢了，我才想去做。沒有人相信的是市場和機遇，大家都相信的叫做膨脹。
9.知道自己要幹什麼，夜深人靜，問問自己，將來的打算，並朝著那個方向去實現。而不是無所事事和做一些無謂的事。
10.出路出路，走出去了，總是會有路的。困難苦難，困在家裡就是難。《社會調查》普遍認為。
11.作為女人，不要倚老賣老，認為事業跟自己沒關係，以為自己就是洗衣服，做飯，看孩子，那就是大錯特錯。
12.做人，要做到；萬事孝為先，教童品之道，夫妻和諧美，幸福萬年長。但是這些不是拿來用嘴說說就能辦到的，解放初期年代要做到這些，需要付出很大的努力和辛苦，當今現實的社會需要你付出很大的金錢，聰明的人都知道這個道理。
13.空閒時間不要經常上網做無聊的事和玩一些沒有意義的遊戲，讀點文學作品，學習一些經營流程，管理規範，國際時事，法律常識。這能保證你在任何聚會都有談資。
14.寧可錯殺一千次來自各方面的信息，也不放過任何一個有可能成功的機會。只有這樣你才不會去買後悔藥。
15.要做一件事，成功之前，沒有必要告訴其他人。成功之後不用你說，其他人都會知道的。這就是信息時代所帶來的效應。
16.頭髮，指甲，鬍子，打理好。社會是個排斥性的接受體，這個星球所需要的藝術家極其有限，請不要冒這個險，就算你留長頭髮比較好看，也要盡量給人乾淨的感覺。
17.不要以為你是個男人，就不需要保養。至少飲食方面不能太隨便，多吃番茄，海產品，韭菜，香蕉，都是對男性健康有益處的食物。你要是看不到價值，我可以告訴你。至少你能把看病節約下來的錢給你的女人多買幾個化妝品。
18.力求上進的人，不要總想著靠誰誰，人都是自私的，自己才是最靠得住的人。
19.面對失敗，不要太計較，天將降大任於斯人也，必先苦其心志，勞其筋骨，餓起體膚……但要學會自責，找到原因，且改掉壞習慣。二十歲沒錢，那很正常；三十歲沒錢，可能是沒有好的家境，需要更大的努力；四十歲沒錢，只能自己找原因。窮人變成富人是可能的，而且很可能。窮人能窮一輩子，也是必然的，存在就是理由，只是有所選擇。
20.每個人都有成功的機會！就看你給不給自己機會！
21.記住，平均每天看電視超過三個小時以上的，一定都是那些月收入不超過五萬元的，如果你想要月收入超過五萬，請不要把時間浪費在電視上。同樣的道理，那些平均每天玩網路遊戲或聊天超過三個小時以上的，也都是那些月收入不超過五萬的。
22.因為窮人很多，並且窮人沒有錢，所以，他們才會在網路上聊天抱怨，消磨時間。你有見過哪個企業老總或主管經理有事沒事經常在臉書裡閒聊的？
23.這個世界，有這麼一小撮的人，打開報紙，是他們的消息，打開電視，是他們的消息，街頭巷尾，議論的是他們的消息，仿佛世界是為他們準備的，他們能夠呼風喚雨，無所不能。你的目標，應該是努力成為這一小撮人。
24.如果，你真的愛你的爸媽，愛你的女朋友，就好好的去奮鬥，去拼搏吧，這樣，你才有能力，有經濟條件，有自由時間，去陪他們，去好好愛他們。
25.這個社會，是快魚吃慢魚，而不是慢魚吃快魚。
26.這個社會，是贏家通吃，輸者一無所有，社會，永遠都是只以成敗論英雄。
27.如果你問周圍朋友，如果十個人，九個人說不知道，那麼，這是一個機遇，如果十個人，九個人都知道了，就是一個行業。
28.任何一個行業，一個市場，都是先來的有肉吃，後來的湯都沒的喝。
29.這個世界上，一流的人才，可以把三流項目做成二流或更好，但是，三流人才，會把一流項目，做的還不如三流。
30.趁著年輕，多出去走走看看。讀萬卷書，不如行萬里路，行萬里路，不如閱人無數。
31.與人交往的時候，多聽少說。這就是，上帝為什麼給我們一個嘴巴兩個耳朵的原因。
32.記得，要做最後出牌的人，出讓別人覺得出其不意的牌，在他們以為你要輸掉的時候，這樣，你才能贏得牌局。
33.不要裝大，對於裝大的人，最好的辦法就是，撿塊磚頭，悄悄跟上去，一下子從背後放倒他。
34.不要隨便說髒話，這會讓別人覺得你沒涵養，不大願意和你交往。即使交往，也是敷衍。因為他內心認定你素質很差。
35.想要抽煙的時候，先問下周圍的人可不可以，要學會尊重別人。少在女生面前耍酷抽煙，你不知道，其實她們內心很反感。
36.買衣服的時候，要自己去挑，不要讓家人給你買，雖然你第一第二次買的都不怎麼樣，可是，你會慢慢有眼光的。
37.要想進步，就只有吸取教訓，成功的經驗都是歪曲的，成功了，想怎麼說都可以，失敗者沒有發言權，可是，你可以通過他的事例反思，總結。教訓，不僅要從自己身上吸取，還要從別人身上吸取。
38.學習，學習，再學習，有事沒事，去書店看看書，關於管理，金融，行銷，人際交往，未來趨勢等這些，你能獲得很多。這個社會競爭太激烈了，你不學習，就會被淘汰。中國2008底，有一百多萬大學生找不到工作。競爭這麼激烈，所以，一定要認識一點，大學畢業了，不是學習結束了，而是學習剛剛開始。還有，我個人推薦一個很好的視頻節目，《誰來一起午餐》。
39.如果你不是歌手，不是畫家，也不是玩行為藝術的，那麼，請在平時注意你的衣著。現在這個社會，衣著能表現出你屬於哪一個群體，哪一個圈子。
40.一個年輕人，如果三年的時間裡，沒有任何想法，他這一生，就基本這個樣子，沒有多大改變了。
41.成功者就是膽識加魄力，曾經在火車上聽人談起過溫州人的成功，說了這麼三個字，“膽子大”。這其實，就是膽識，而拿得起，放得下，就是魄力。
42.無論你以後是不是從事銷售部門，都看一下關於行銷的書籍。因為，生活中，你處處都是在向別人推銷展示你自己。
43.平時的時候，多和你的朋友溝通交流一下，不要等到需要朋友的説明時，才想到要和他們聯繫，到了社會，你才會知道，能夠認識一個真正的朋友，有多難？
44.如果你想知道自己將來的年收入如何。找你最經常來往的六個朋友，把他們的年收入加起來，除以六，就差不多是你的了。這個例子，可以充分的說明一點，物以類聚。
45.給自己定一個五年的目標，然後，把它分解成一年一年，半年半年的，三個月的，一個月的。這樣，你才能找到自己的目標和方向。
46.無論什麼時候，記住尊嚴這兩個字，做人是要有尊嚴，有原則，有底線的。否則，沒有人會尊重你。
47.如果我只能送你一句忠告，那就是，這個世界上沒有免費的午餐，永遠不要走捷徑！
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