無名氏碑文
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在倫敦聞名世界的威斯敏斯特大教堂地下室的墓碑林中，有一塊簡單的無名氏碑文，卻能改變你的三觀。
這一塊很普通的墓碑，只是粗糙的花崗石質地，造型也很一般，同周圍那些質地上乘、做工優良的亨利三世到喬治二世等20多位英國前國王墓碑，以及牛頓、達爾文、狄更斯等名人的墓碑比較起來，它顯得微不足道。而且它沒有姓名，沒有生卒年月，甚至上面連墓主的介紹文字也沒有。但是，就是這樣一塊無名氏墓碑，卻成為名揚全球的著名墓碑。
每一個到過威斯特敏斯特大教堂的人，他們可以不去拜謁那些曾經顯赫一世的英國前國王們，可以不去拜謁那諸如狄更斯、達爾文等世界名人們，但他們卻沒有人不來拜謁這一塊普通的墓碑，因為他們都被這塊墓碑深深地震撼著，準確地說，他們被這塊墓碑上的碑文深深地震撼著。
在這塊墓碑上，刻著這樣的一段話：
When I was young and free and my imagination had no limits,I dreamed of changing theworld.
As I grew older and wiser, I discovered the world would not change, so I shortened my sights somewhat and decided to change only my country. But it, too, seemed immovable.
As I grewinto my twilight years, in one last desperate attempt, I settled for changing only my family, those closest to me, but alas, they would have none of it.
And now, as Ilie on my death bed, I suddenly realize:
If I had only changed myself first, then by example I would have changed my family.From their in spiration and encouragement, I would then have been able to better my country,and who knows, I may have even changed the world.
譯文：
當我年輕的時候，我的想像力豐富，我夢想改變這個世界。
當我成熟以後，我發現我不能改變這個世界，我將目光縮短了些，決定只改變我的國家。
當我進入暮年後，我發現我不能改變我的國家，我的最後願望僅僅是改變一下我的家庭。但是，連這也沒達成。
當我行將就木時，我躺在床上，突然意識到：如果一開始我僅僅去改變我自己，然後作為一個榜樣，我可能改變我的家庭；在家人的幫助和鼓勵下，我可能為國家做一些事情。然後誰知道呢？我甚至可能改變這個世界。
許多世界政要和名人看到這塊碑文時都感慨不已。有人說這是一篇人生的教義，有人說這是靈魂的一種自省。
當年輕的曼德拉看到這篇碑文時，頓然有醍醐灌頂之感，聲稱自己從中找到了改變南非甚至整個世界的金鑰匙。
回到南非後，這個志向遠大、原本贊同以暴治暴填平種族歧視鴻溝的黑人青年，一下子改變的自己的思想和處世風格，他從改變自己、改變自己的家庭和親朋好友著手，經歷了幾十年，終於改變了他的國家。
人永遠懷著一顆善良的心，持續做對的事。
時刻提醒自己，改變自己，低調做人。
1.想像你自己面對困難時所作出的反應，不是逃避或繞開它們，而是面對它們，以一種進取和明智的方式奮鬥向前。沒有所謂的最佳時機，人生裡所謂的絕佳機會，並無關你準備得多好，而是取決於你是否有勇氣做出改變。
2.不隨意發脾氣，誰都不欠你的，這個世界沒有“應該”二字。明白自己渺小，切忌自我陶醉，其實您並沒有想像中的強，即使沒有你，太陽照常升起！不抱怨這個世界的話，這才是一種正確的人生態度。
3.學會放下，拽的越緊，越是無法自拔。學會感恩、隨順的同時，也要堅持自己最基本的因果原則。學會寬恕傷害自己的人，因為他們也很可憐，被壓力推動，不由自主。
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