當資深員工碰到菜鳥主管
惟雯說故事
老王在公司服務將近二十年了，是一步一腳印，才慢慢爬升到目前小主管的職位。
但新進員工個個學歷傲人，不是碩士、就是博士，且大多薪水、職位比他高。
但這些菜鳥主管做起事來，不見得比他這「資深」員工行。
老王十分不服氣，不知不覺就以「資深」資格自居，總是問：
「是你該配合我？還是我該配合你？」
結果老朋友、新朋友一個個遠離他，使他的人緣「盪」(down)到最低點，工作推展也越發力不從心。
「是別人該配合我？還是我得配合別人？」
如果這句話是你在職場上的口頭禪，那麼請你看看下面這一則故事。
曾被譽為全世界最偉大的礦治工程師赫蒙，耶魯大學畢業，又在德國福萊堡修完碩士學位，回美國找工作遇到一位沒有學歷又不相信文憑的大礦主赫斯特。
大礦主對赫蒙說：「我不想錄用你，是因為你是碩士，腦袋裡只裝滿一大堆沒用的理論。我可不需要文縐縐的工程師。」
赫蒙貼近大礦主，說：「倘若你答應不告訴我父親的話，有個秘密我想告訴你。」
大礦主點頭，赫蒙一本正經的說：「其實我在德國什麼也沒學到，只是在那裡鬼混了三年。」
大礦主笑嘻嘻的說：「好！很好！你明天就來上吧！」
瞧！人緣就是在這種「萬事互相效應」中產生的。
「送貴重禮物換交情」是短期存款；想擁有同事的永遠人緣，還是請確實把握以下的「五不」原則吧!
1.依老不賣老。
2.彈性不固執。
3.幽默不傷人。
4.關心不冷漠。
5.真誠不矯情。
有位心理學家還列出一張人際關係自省表：
1.此人不在，萬事皆休。
2.此人在比較好。
3.此人在與不在都無關緊要。
4.此人不在比較好。
5.此人消失更好。
你的人緣處於第幾級呢？
換個角度來看，其實職場上誰配合誰都無所謂，處事圓融最重要，
因為：在職場上，「人緣」才是你的戰力的長期存摺！
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