恐懼之心
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一天，幾個學生向美國著名的心理學家弗洛姆請教：心態對一個人會產生什麼樣的影響？
弗洛姆微微一笑，一句話也不說，把他們帶到一間黑暗的房子裡。
在他的引導下，學生們很快就穿過了這間伸手不見五指的神秘房間。
接著，弗洛姆打開房間裡的一盞燈，這盞燈暗淡昏黃，光線不足，在裡面適應一陣子，才能看清房間裡的東西。
等同學們看清楚房間的佈置後，不禁嚇出了一身冷汗。
原來，這間房子的下面是一個很深很大的水池，水池裡不僅游動著幾條張著血盆大口的大鱷魚，還有很多各種各樣的毒蛇，其中幾條毒蛇正高高地昂著頭，朝他們“噝噝”地吐著信子，進行挑釁呢。
「我們剛才是怎麼過來的？」同學們更加驚異了。
原來，在這座水池的上方，搭著一座很窄很窄的獨木橋，他們剛才就是從這座獨木橋上走過來的。
同學們你看看我，我看看你，面面相覷，不禁又是一陣恐懼。
停了一會兒，弗洛姆問：「誰願意再一次走過這座橋？」
大家的心一下子都又縮緊了，有的人臉色都嚇白了，竟然沒有一個人作聲。
過了好一會兒，終於有3個學生畏畏縮縮地站了出來。
其中一個學生一走上去，就像體操運動員踩平衡木一樣，異常小心謹慎，大氣都不敢出，速度比第一次慢了好多倍。
第二個學生戰戰兢兢地踩在小木橋上，身子不由自主地顫抖著，才走到一半，一頭鱷魚追了過來，嚇得他“哇”的一聲大哭起來，後來弗洛姆趕走了鱷魚，他才勉強爬過了小橋。
第三個學生剛跨上小橋腿就軟了，他乾脆趴到橋上，匍匐著慢慢地爬過了小橋。
“啪”，弗洛姆又打開了房間裡的另外幾盞燈，強烈的燈光一下子把整個房間照耀得如同白晝。
學生們揉揉眼睛仔細一看，原來在小木橋的下方裝著一層透明的玻璃地板，只是因為剛才光線暗淡，他們沒有分辨出來。
「原來老師是在考驗我們。」同學們不禁輕鬆地笑了。
弗洛姆又問：「現在，誰願意通過這座小橋？」
同學們相視一笑，一個個爭先恐後地通過了小橋。
弗洛姆笑著說：「你們不是問什麼叫心態嗎？現在我可以告訴你們了。這座橋本來不難走，可是橋下的鱷魚、毒蛇對你們造成了心理威懾，於是，你們就失去了平靜的心，亂了方寸，慌了手腳，表現出各種程度的膽怯，由此可見，心態對於一個人來說是多麼重要啊。面對同樣的困難，心態好時，心靜如水，如走平地；心態不好時，心亂如麻，如履薄冰——心態對行為有多麼大的影響啊。」
在我們的現實生活中，有的人總是面帶微笑，遊戲人生；有的人則雙眉緊鎖，怨天尤人。
一位哲人說：「你的心態就是你真正的主人。」
另一位偉人說：「要麼你去駕馭生命，要麼是生命駕馭你。你的心態決定誰是坐騎，誰是騎師。」
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