歲月靜好
惟雯說故事
為什麼年輕時要多賺點錢？
願 所愛歲月靜好，這是我聽過最好的回答。
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那年，我23歲。第一次去女朋友家，見她父母。
其實，以前大家也見過，在視頻裡。
這次不一樣，是女朋友父母的盛情邀請。
坐在滿滿的一桌飯菜前，場面太正式，令人有些隱隱不安。
吃到一半，女朋友的父親果然開始提問，先是些無關緊要的話題，然後話鋒一轉：「大概什麼時候買房？」
旁邊，女朋友的母親，也漫不經心說，隔壁家老劉的准女婿，剛買了間三房兩廳。
這時，我不知說些什麼才好。腦袋裡滿是那張每月加全勤22000的工資單。
然後，氣氛就冷了。
我匆匆吃完飯，找了個公司有事的藉口，當天就返程了。
一個星期後，我約了女朋友出來，平靜的分了手。
她的淚水，就像決堤的壩，但我仍然冷靜的走了。
不是我冷靜，而是我開始懂得，談不起錢的愛情，註定走不遠。
愛情中可以沒錢，但結婚不行。
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這8年，我去了新的城市，換了新工作。
我曾拼命陪客戶喝酒，也曾加班到天亮。
我的工資翻了3倍，到了30歲，我終於有了些積蓄。
這個時刻，我甚至感覺全身充滿了力量。我決定去買房。
含著職業微笑的銷售顧問，帶我去看樣品屋。
南北通透的戶型，社區綠化很好，推開窗，我就能看到遠方的山脊線。
但問了總價，我就沈默了。
房子漲價的速度，太快了。
我慢慢走回家，決定過些日子，房價降了再買。
但我打開朋友圈，看到的第一條動態，就是市民連夜排隊買房。
我知道，還不出手，可能再也追不上房價了。
我狠下心，給父母打電話，拿來了他們的100萬養老錢。
我給所有的親戚打電話，陪著笑臉，向他們借錢。
三天後，我湊夠了首付，去簽了購房合約。
按上指印的那一刻，我的眼睛酸了。
有錢多好啊。
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轉眼，我34歲了，成了別人眼裡的中產。
我開始懂得，有錢，就有家，就有穩穩的確定感。
日子過得波瀾不驚，一切都走上了正軌，孩子也已經3歲，該上幼兒園了。
我有兩種選擇：樓下的雙語幼稚園，或者是把他送到隔壁安置小區，那裡也有一家民營的幼教機構。
前一家，每月費用23000，有外師教學。
後一家，9000就夠了，老師都是中年的阿姨。
我在電腦上，看了一晚上的虐童新聞，第二天早餐時，我和妻子說，就去那家23000塊的優質幼兒園吧。
我沒有和妻子說，這段時間，公司正在進行職位調整。
我準備申請調職，從現在悠閒的辦公室工作，調到一線工作部門。
雖然會累些，但收入會增加不少。
知道調職的消息後，妻子果然抱怨了我，說我不自量力。
我沒有辯解，相反我在心裡笑了。
因為我開始懂了，累是累些，但至少在孩子需要時，我不會囊中羞澀，我不會讓他在起跑線上就輸了。
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又過了三年。
所有的事情，都在向好處發展，我甚至有了野心勃勃的計劃，等父母都退休了，就把他們接到身邊來。
但清晨，母親的電話就來了，父親在晨練時突發腦溢血，鄉下的醫院束手無策。
我瘋了的開車，往老家趕，把父母接到了我住的大城市裡。
我相信，這裡有優質的醫療資源，有一流的醫生，一切會重新回到原來的樣子。
在那家教學級醫院裡，教授級的醫生，果然都給出了肯定的回答，我的父親，也一天天好起來。但每天上萬塊的支出，很快就讓我感覺到了壓力。父親的醫療保險，在這裡形同廢紙。
兩個月後，父親堅持要出院。我不肯，但父親用含糊的固執的聲音告訴我，剩下的，就是康復訓練了，老家也可以，哪裡都一樣。
我送他們回家，平時三個小時的路程，我開了六個小時。
因為我總是忍不住，想爬在方向盤上哭。
父母老去的速度，比我想象的快多了。
我開始懂了，錢有時也是孝心。
如果我有足夠的錢，就不會對父母無能為力。
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如果你沒有經歷過買房，你不會知道錢有多重要；
如果你沒有經歷過家人生病，你不會知道，錢是多麼不可或缺；
如果你沒有過月薪18000的生活，你不會知道，賺錢是為了什麼。
同樣，為什麼年輕時要努力賺錢？
不是為了成為富豪，也不是為了享受。
而是有一天，你有底氣說，我可過上更好的生活。
你也有底氣對親人說，親愛的，別怕，一切有我。
王爾德說：「我年輕時還以為金錢最重要，如今年紀大了，發現那句話一點不假。」
千萬別在年輕時假裝不愛錢，你應該更努力一些。
我們努力賺錢，就是為了不對親人無能為力，
就是為了讓所愛能歲月靜好。
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