維護別人的自尊是一種善良
惟雯說故事
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有些人明知道別人離了婚，非得要問清楚，到底是誰先犯了錯？
有些人看到別人穿著假名牌，總要故意問一句，在哪裡買的？
有些人明知道別人有難言之隱，卻還是要在大庭廣眾之下公開討論，這種人自以為很聰明，其實不過是欠缺修養。
有句話說的好：「明知不問是修養，看穿不言是智慧，在別人難堪的時候，保持明知不問，是一種善良。」
說說我在餐廳吃飯的一次經歷……
那天，一位老伯伯吃完飯，準備拿著帳單去付錢。
可他突然發現找不到錢包，全身摸了一遍，口袋一個個掏出來也沒找著，開始著急不安起來。
餐廳老闆見狀走過來：「阿伯，怎麼了？」
老伯伯不知所措地說：「我口袋裡的200元…… 掉了。」
老闆聽完，故作驚訝地說：「剛剛有一位客人撿到200元寄放在我這邊，是您掉的吧，這還給你。」 說著便從收銀機裡面抽出200元給了老伯伯。
實際上，那200元是老闆自己的錢，我跟朋友聊天都誇老闆做得好。
朋友卻不以為意的說：「不就200元的事情，如果我是老闆，我直接給他免費。」
我搖著頭說：「重要的不是那200元，那一頓飯的錢，而是這位老闆懂得給人家留下體面，懂得照顧人家的感受。」
若是直接施捨對方，難免會讓人感覺到自己在被同情。
老闆的一個小細心，溫暖的維護了別人的自尊，背後何嘗不是一種用心良苦。
在人生旅途中，能夠看穿別人的窘迫，卻不大聲喧嘩，是一份難得的體貼。
能夠細心地察覺別人的難處，默默地給予支持，是一個人深到骨子裡的善良。
給別人留一分體面才是真正的關心，不是表面的噓寒問暖，而是那溫度。
助人無需張揚，學會將心比心、換位思考就好了。
我始終相信，能夠做到不讓別人難堪，才是一個人最頂級的修養。
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