在懂你的人群中散步
惟雯說故事
這個世界上總有20%的人，就是莫名喜歡你，也總有20%的人，莫名討厭你，還有一些人，處於中立狀態。
既然世界上總有20%的人，就是莫名其妙的討厭你。如果每天把關注點放在他們身上，只會煩惱不斷。
但是，如果嘗試著把關注點放在20%的喜歡你的人身上，只在懂你的人群中散步，每天便如沐春風。
有時，有太多人被請進生命裡。據說：
我們的一生會遇到過8263563人；
會打招呼的是39778人；
會和3619人熟悉；
會和275人親近。
但最終，大部分的人都會失散在人海。
隨著時間，你會發現，雖然在同一個十字路口等待紅綠燈，但往相同方向的人總是越來越少。
有段話也說得很好：
人生其實像一條從寬闊的平原走進森林的路。在平原上同伴可以結夥而行，歡樂地前推後擠。
可一旦進入森林，草叢和荊棘擋路，情形就變了，各人專心走各人的路，尋找各人的方向。
所以，人世間的事情勉強終歸不能如意，凡事只需要做兩點就足夠：
1、不懂你的人，不必強求。
有緣的人，總是在花好月圓的時刻相遇，在對的時間裡明白應該明白的事，不多也不少，不早也不遲。
世間這麼多人，只要有1%的人懂你，足夠了，選擇同頻道的人在一起，人生會變得非常的簡單快樂。
2、不懂的東西和不理解的事物，保持一顆初心，去探索和接納。
因為，也許他們站的位置我們沒有去過，他們看見的事物我們沒有看見。打開思維、心智、心靈，給自己一雙澄澈的眼睛，接納所有的不同，像孩子一般懷著好奇心去探索。
周國平曾說：人生有三次成長：
一是發現自己不再是世界中心的時候，
二是發現再怎麼努力也無能為力的時候，
三是接受自己的平凡並去享受平凡的時候。
把愛留給疼你的人，把心留給懂你的人，願你餘生，和懂你的人一起散步。
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