亢龍有悔
惟雯說故事
宋朝的法演禪師有回說戒:
「勢不可使盡,使盡則禍必至;福不可受盡,受盡則緣必孤;話不可說盡,說盡則人必易(易,生變也);規矩不可行盡,行盡則人必繁。」
這就是在警示我們,凡事皆不可太過極端、絕斷,當留點空間給自己或別人。
「勢不可使盡」:
有人認為權力在握,吆三喝四,是人生最得意的事。更有些人,更是乘勢而起,爭一時的龍鳳。而不知道,勢力一用盡災禍到來時,正如「飛鳥盡良弓藏,狡兔死走狗烹」,後悔都來不及了。
「福不可受盡」:
有的人認為擁有了錢財,人生就很幸福。但是金錢若使用不當,往往是罪惡的來源。
而今日社會上更有許多不知慈悲助人,只知守住金錢,他們雖然富甲一方,但是因為不會使用金錢,「金錢」只會徒然增加他們的煩惱與業障而已!
更有人行樂及時,「有福不享人笑痴」。但是他們不知道,福如果享盡,就算是天人,也會有「五衰相」的現象;更何況我們這些博地凡夫,業深福薄,失人身易,得人身難。
縱情財色名食睡,恐怕要墮入地獄,變成閻羅王的點心了。
「話不可說盡」:
凡事要留個餘地,愈是憤怒的時候,愈是要克制自己,不輕易口出惡言,傷人傷己。
佛經上說:「瞋火能燒功德林。」
一時的怒氣,無心的言語,往往會毀掉多年辛苦培養的友誼與功德。待人謙遜包容,不驕矜,不恃寵,靜坐常常思維自己的過錯,閒談時不要去談論別人的是非,要常常反省檢討自己的缺失,而不斤斤計較別人的過錯。
寧可他人負我,我決不負他人,以責人之心責己,以恕己之心恕人。能夠以如此寬容,體諒的心來對待社會生活的一切,擺在眼前的必定是一條坦蕩的大道。
「規矩不可行盡」:
但是有的人,發號施令,自以為威儀具足,唯我獨尊。
卻不知道,好的翁姑,也不能不「不痴不聾」;調和君臣的宰相,更不能不「肚大撐船」。
明察秋毫,戒律森嚴,往往刻薄寡恩,要明白,就算是佛戒也有開解。
留言列表(13,046条)
We are a group of volunteers and opening a new scheme in our community.
Your web site offered us with valuable information to
work on. You have done a formidable job and our entire community will be grateful
to you.
Wonderful web site. A lot of helpful info here. I am sending it
to some pals ans additionally sharing in delicious.
And of course, thanks to your effort!
I every time used to study paragraph in news papers but now as I
am a user of net so from now I am using net for articles, thanks to
web.
It’s going to be ending of mine day, however before finish I
am reading this wonderful piece of writing to improve my experience.
You can definitely see your skills within the work you write.
The arena hopes for even more passionate writers such as
you who are not afraid to say how they believe. At all times
go after your heart.
The next time I learn a weblog, I hope that it doesnt disappoint me as much as this one. I imply, I do know it was my choice to learn, however I truly thought youd have one thing attention-grabbing to say. All I hear is a bunch of whining about one thing that you would fix for those who werent too busy looking for attention.
Do you mind if I quote a few of your posts as long as I provide credit and sources back to your weblog?
My blog is in the exact same niche as yours and my visitors would
really benefit from some of the information you present here.
Please let me know if this okay with you. Regards!
Four grams of magic mushroom can be found in the delicious chocolate Polkadot Mushroom Bar.
I have recently started a web site, the info you offer on this website has helped me tremendously. Thank you for all of your time & work.
Terrific article! That is the type of info that
are supposed to be shared across the net. Shame on the seek engines for
no longer positioning this post higher! Come on over and talk over with my site .
Thank you =)
Thank you for another magnificent post. Where else could anyone get that kind of information in such an ideal way of writing? I have a presentation next week, and I’m on the look for such information.
My partner and I stumbled over here different page and thought I should check things out.
I like what I see so i am just following you. Look forward to checking out
your web page yet again.
Hi, Neat post. There’s an issue together with your
web site in internet explorer, might check this?
IE nonetheless is the market leader and a good
component to folks will miss your excellent writing
due to this problem.
Hi, all is going sound here and ofcourse every one is sharing information, that’s in fact good, keep up writing.
It’s very easy to find out any topic on net as compared to books, as I found this piece of writing at
this site.
I don’t even know how I ended up right here, but I believed this publish was good.
I don’t recognise who you might be but definitely you are going to a famous blogger in the event you aren’t already.
Cheers!
Hi there! I know this is kinda off topic however I’d figured I’d ask. Would you be interested in trading links or maybe guest authoring a blog article or vice-versa? My blog discusses a lot of the same topics as yours and I believe we could greatly benefit from each other. If you’re interested feel free to send me an e-mail. I look forward to hearing from you! Great blog by the way!
Heya i’m for the first time here. I came across this board
and I find It really useful & it helped me out much.
I hope to give something back and aid others like you
aided me.
I’d have to verify with you here. Which isn’t something I normally do! I take pleasure in reading a post that will make folks think. Also, thanks for allowing me to remark!
Very nice post. I just stumbled upon your weblog and wanted to mention that I have really
loved surfing around your blog posts. After all I will be subscribing for
your rss feed and I’m hoping you write once more soon!
It’s in fact very complex in this active life to listen news on TV, thus I only
use internet for that reason, and obtain the hottest information.
Hey I am so thrilled I found your website, I really found you by mistake, while I was looking
on Yahoo for something else, Anyways I am here
now and would just like to say many thanks for a fantastic post and
a all round enjoyable blog (I also love the theme/design), I don’t have time
to go through it all at the moment but I have saved it and also added your RSS
feeds, so when I have time I will be back to read a great deal more,
Please do keep up the superb b.
Oh my goodness! Awesome article dude! Thank you, However I am going through problems with your RSS.
I don’t know the reason why I cannot join it.
Is there anyone else getting identical RSS issues?
Anyone that knows the solution will you kindly respond?
Thanx!!
It’s appropriate time to make some plans for the future and it is time to be happy.
I’ve read this post and if I could I desire to suggest you some interesting things or advice.
Perhaps you could write next articles referring to this article.
I desire to read even more things about it!
Hi there this is kind of of off topic but I was wanting to know if
blogs use WYSIWYG editors or if you have to manually code
with HTML. I’m starting a blog soon but have no coding knowledge so I
wanted to get advice from someone with experience. Any
help would be greatly appreciated!
I loved as much as you will receive carried out right here.
The sketch is attractive, your authored subject
matter stylish. nonetheless, you command get got an impatience over that you wish be delivering the following.
unwell unquestionably come further formerly again as exactly the same nearly a lot often inside case you shield this increase.
Greetings from Los angeles! I’m bored to tears at work so I decided to check
out your website on my iphone during lunch break. I really
like the information you provide here and can’t wait to take a look when I get home.
I’m surprised at how fast your blog loaded on my phone ..
I’m not even using WIFI, just 3G .. Anyways, excellent blog!
It’s essential to approach the purchase of DMT,
or any psychoactive substance, with caution and
responsibility.
Its like you read my mind! You appear to understand a lot about this, like you wrote the e-book in it or something. I feel that you simply can do with a few percent to force the message home a bit, but instead of that, this is magnificent blog. A great read. I will definitely be back.
Hi there, I found your blog by means of Google whilst searching
for a related topic, your site came up, it seems to be great.
I’ve bookmarked it in my google bookmarks.
Hello there, just became aware of your blog via
Google, and located that it is really informative. I’m gonna
be careful for brussels. I’ll appreciate in the event
you continue this in future. A lot of other people will probably be benefited from your writing.
Cheers!
Spot on with this write-up, I truly believe this website
needs far more attention. I’ll probably be returning to read through more, thanks for the advice!
Hmm is anyone else experiencing problems with the pictures on this blog
loading? I’m trying to determine if its a problem on my end or if it’s the blog.
Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
Hi there just wanted to give you a brief heads up and let you know a few of the pictures aren’t loading correctly.
I’m not sure why but I think its a linking issue.
I’ve tried it in two different web browsers and both show the same outcome.
Whats up! I simply would like to give an enormous thumbs up for the good data you may have here on this post. I will be coming back to your weblog for extra soon.
It’s awesome in favor of me to have a web page, which
is useful in favor of my know-how. thanks admin
Hi there! Do you know if they make any plugins to protect against hackers? I’m kinda paranoid about losing everything I’ve worked hard on. Any tips?
This paragraph will help the internet people for setting up new webpage or even a blog from start to end.
Thank you a bunch for sharing this with all folks you actually recognize what you are
talking approximately! Bookmarked. Kindly also talk over with my website =).
We may have a hyperlink trade agreement between us
Pretty element of content. I simply stumbled upon your blog and in accession capital to say that I get actually loved account your weblog posts. Any way I’ll be subscribing to your augment and even I fulfillment you get entry to persistently quickly.
Heya i’m for the first time here. I came across this board and I in finding It really useful & it helped me out a lot.
I am hoping to offer something again and help others like you helped me.
Way cool! Some extremely valid points! I appreciate you penning this article and the
rest of the site is also really good.
I’m not that much of a online reader to be honest but your sites really nice, keep it up! I’ll go ahead and bookmark your website to come back in the future. All the best
I’ve been exploring for a little for any high quality articles or blog posts on this kind of area . Exploring in Yahoo I at last stumbled upon this site. Reading this information So i am happy to convey that I’ve a very good uncanny feeling I discovered just what I needed. I most certainly will make certain to do not forget this website and give it a glance regularly.
There is definately a lot to know about this subject.
I like all the points you have made.
I love your blog.. very nice colors & theme.
Did you create this website yourself or did you hire someone to do it for you?
Plz answer back as I’m looking to construct
my own blog and would like to find out where u got
this from. thank you
What’s up i am kavin, its my first occasion to commenting anywhere, when i read this
piece of writing i thought i could also make comment due to this good piece of writing.
Rusa 4D terbukti sebagai bandar judi togel online terpopuler ditahun 2019.
Rusa 4D telah disurvei menjadi Bandar Togel Terpercaya di
Indonesia saat ini. Togel online yang berani memberikan pembayaran terbesar hanya di Rusa 4D Bandar SGP Terbesar.
Do you have a spam issue on this blog; I also am a blogger, and I was curious about your situation; we have created some nice procedures and we are looking to
swap methods with other folks, be sure to shoot me an e-mail if interested.
This is a topic which is near to my heart… Best wishes!
Where are your contact details though?
I visited various web pages except the audio quality for
audio songs existing at this web page is truly fabulous.