留財不如留德

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惟雯說故事

 

人的命運和財運,究竟有何規律可遵循?

 

如果要看清一個人的命運和財運,不能只看他這一代人,應該結合他的上一代和下一代一起去看,三代才是一個完整的周期。

 

以胡雪巖、盛宣懷、左宗棠、李鴻章、曾國藩、林則徐、梁啓超等人為例,為同一個時期的風雲人物,仔細研究他們和他們後代的命運,會有很大領悟。

當您讀懂這些傳奇人物和他們的後代的命運,必能參透了財運和命運的規律。

 

1、我們先來看一段歷史,這段故事非常非常有意思,值得我們反覆品讀:

清末中國有兩個大富豪:一個是胡雪巖,另外一個是盛宣懷。

兩人分別都有自己的政治靠山,胡雪巖依靠左宗棠,盛宣懷依靠李鴻章,其實很多商人都是當官的白手套。

 

而李鴻章和左宗棠又政見不和,因此李鴻章和左宗棠一直在暗自較量,李鴻章明白扳倒左宗棠的最好辦法,就是搞掉他的白手套胡雪巖。

 

這時李鴻章的白手套盛宣懷就派上大用場了,他開始悄悄布局,真是商場如戰場,當時胡雪巖高價收購生絲數百萬擔,就在胡雪巖全部身家都變成貨物之際,盛宣懷迅速借用李鴻章的權力全力阻截胡雪巖的現金流,來一招釜底抽薪,並且放出可消息,說胡雪巖要出問題了……

 

這時市面上都傳胡雪巖積囤生絲大賠血本,挪用阜康錢莊存款,導致各地皆發生擠兌風潮,致使胡雪巖的錢莊相繼破產,於是胡雪巖的商業帝國轟然倒塌。

 

於是盛宣懷和李鴻章贏了,左宗棠和胡雪巖相繼死去。胡雪巖死後,盛宣懷的商業帝國如日中天,總攬著當時中國的電報、輪船、鐵路、礦業等各種事業。

 

2、然而,這兩大富豪的傳奇故事還沒結束。

1916年盛宣懷去世,留給子女的資產至少幾千萬兩白銀(當時一個普通老百姓一年的生活費是十幾兩),盛宣懷去世之後,盛恩頤順利繼承了父親的大部分家產,成為家族公司的總經理。

 

盛恩頤確實太有錢了,有錢到不知人生為何物,他就白天睡覺,晚上賭場,人稱民國第一花花公子。

 

他有多能賭呢?曾經一個晚上把上海一百棟樓輸給了盧小嘉,這一百棟樓如果放在今天價值至少幾百億。

 

另外這個盧小嘉是誰呢?也大有來頭,他是皖系軍閥盧永祥的兒子。曾與孫中山之子孫科,張作霖之子張學良,段祺瑞之子段宏業,一起被人稱作民國「四大公子」。

 

盧小嘉當時有多牛?說一件事大家知道了,他曾綁架、囚禁上海灘第一流氓大亨~黃金榮,還當場啪啪甩了他兩個耳光。

 

話再說回到盛恩頤這裡,他很快就把盛宣懷攢下的龐大家產給敗光了,晚年時候盛恩頤窮困潦倒,淪落為一個乞丐,最後一個人死在家裡的門房裡。

 

3、再來看看李鴻章後代的命運吧。

李鴻章留給子孫的財產數量也是相當驚人,容閎在《容閎回憶錄》中估算了李鴻章的遺產,稱李鴻章「有私產四千萬兩以遺子孫」。而且還有田產、房產和當鋪遍及合肥、蕪湖、上海、南京、揚州等地。

 

李鴻章的孫子李子嘉,與哥哥李厚甫平分了父親的家產,但是這個李子嘉也是個花花公子,他平日除了吸鴉片就是逛妓院,甚至還在妓院沾染了梅毒。

 

後來他把全部精力放在了賭博上,他出手非常闊綽,賭錢基本不賭現金,而是直接賭田契、房契。

 

很快,他也把自己繼承的家業輸光了,也到了吃不上飯的地步,流浪街頭,舉目無親。接下來電視劇都不敢這麼寫的情節發生了,李子嘉居然去投靠了左宗棠的孫子左巨生。

 

我們再文章開始已經描述了,他倆的爺爺可是政治對手啊,也可能是兩人的命運太相似,讓他們成了紅塵知己。

 

從此以後,兩人便在左巨生家的破屋裡相濡以沫。最後,過慣了享樂日子的李子嘉終於扛不住了,撲通一聲跳進了池塘裡。

 

李子嘉死後,左巨生因無錢安葬,便通知其哥哥李厚甫前來收屍。此時的李厚甫也已經窮困潦倒,他和誰糾纏到一起去了呢?盛宣懷的那個敗家子盛恩頤。

 

人生的命運和財運真是曲折離奇啊。

 

4、在李鴻章、盛宣懷等給子孫留下巨大財產的同時,卻有一個沒有給子孫留下任何財產的人,這個人叫曾國藩。

 

早在曾國藩初為大官時便對家人表示:「絕不留銀錢與後人。」後來身為湘軍統帥,他再次申明他的態度:「仕宦之家,不蓄積銀錢,使子弟自覺一無可恃。」

 

給孩子留了一大筆錢,其實就剝奪了他們人生進取的意義,甚至讓他們無所事事,只有讓孩子們獨立自主的成長,他們才能找到自己人生的價值。

 

曾國藩終生倡導寒素、勤勉、篤學的家風,這些家風使得其後人在200多年後出了240多位傑出人物,他的後人在各個領域全部都有貢獻。

 

差不多同時期的梁啓超也是如此,他的教育理念是:不受無汗水之金錢。同時主張一個人要用其所長,要做自己感興趣的事,天下事業無所謂大小,士大夫救濟天下和農夫耕種其十畝田所取得的成就相同。

 

5、梁啓超9個子女,堪稱一門三院士,九子皆才俊,是中國最旺的名門之一。

 

後來,曾國藩的的外孫聶雲台這樣寫道:

「發財不難,保財最難。我住在上海五十餘年,看見發財的人很多,發財以後,有不到五年、十年就敗的,有二、三十年即敗的,也有四、五十年敗完了的。

我記得與先父往來的多數有錢人,有的做官,有的從商,都是煊赫一時的,現在已經多數凋零,家事沒落了。有的是因為子孫嫖賭不務正業揮霍一空;有的是連子孫都無影無蹤了。大約算來,四、五十年前的有錢人,現在家產沒有全敗的,子孫能讀書、務正業、上進的,百中難得一、兩家了。」

 

6、他還這樣總結:虎門硝煙的林則徐,當時也很有權勢,他如果想發財是很容易的事情,但他就是堅持造福百姓,他認為鴉片貽害人民非常嚴重,所以燒毀了鴉片兩萬箱。

 

因為剛正不阿,林則徐死了以後,也是毫無積蓄,但是他的子孫數代都是書香不斷,曾孫輩中尚有進士、舉人,至今日仍然存在顯達者。多年前最高法院院長林翔,也是其一,而且道德亦非常的崇高。

 

聶雲台還舉了和林則徐身邊人的例子,當時廣東的伍氏及潘氏、孔氏都是發鴉片橫財的人,當時凡是海內有名的古字畫碑帖,多數都蓋有伍氏、潘氏、孔氏的圖章,可見這三家的富貴。

 

但是幾十年後,這些珍貴的物品,又已經流到別家了。他們的楠木房屋,早已被拆了,最關鍵的是:他們的後人,一個發達的也沒有。和林則徐的後代相比,真是天壤之別!

 

再來看看林則徐醍醐灌頂的教誨:「子孫若如我,留錢做什麼?賢而多財,則損其志;子孫不如我,留錢做什麼?愚而多財,益增其過!」

 

中國有句老話叫「富不過三代」。說的就是這個道理,財富傳承最多只能傳到第三代,而真正的書香門第,富是可以一代又一代的傳承下去的!

 

左宗棠曾說過,世上最大的悲劇是後人「蠢而多財」。不知他說這句話的時候,有沒想過自己的後代也會成為這句話的反面教材。

 

其實,人類社會有個平衡法則—-人在一個地方得到,老天必會在另外一個地方讓你失去,以實現總體平衡。這種因果,有時是當代出現,有時會隔代循環。

 

縱觀民國風雲史,這些名人用了幾代人的經歷向我們證明了一個道理:「積財給子孫是留禍,積德給子孫才是留福」。反之,積善之家必有後福,真是留財不如留德啊!

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