愛的家庭教育
惟雯說故事
這件事發生在一個法國家庭。
一天,孩子放學後,在客廳玩球,忽然,籃球打落書架上的一個花瓶,“咚”的一聲,花瓶重重地摔到地板上,瓶口摔掉一大塊。
這不是擺設品,而是祖上傳下來的波旁王朝時期的古董。
孩子慌忙把碎片用膠水粘起來,膽戰心驚地放回原位。
當天晚上,母親發現花瓶有些“變化”。
吃晚餐時,她問孩子:“是不是你打碎了花瓶?”
孩子靈機一動,說:“一隻野貓從窗外跳進來,怎麼也趕不走,它在客廳上躥下跳,最後碰倒架子上的花瓶。”
母親很清楚,孩子在撒謊,因為每天上班前,她會把窗戶一扇扇關好,下班回來再打開。
母親不動聲色地說:“是我疏忽了,沒有關好窗戶。”
就寢前,孩子在床上發現一張便條,原來是母親讓他馬上到書房去。
看到孩子忐忑不安地推門進來,母親從抽屜裡拿出一個盒子,把其中一塊巧克力遞給孩子:“這塊巧克力獎品給你,因為你運用神奇的想像力,杜撰出一隻會開窗戶的貓,以後,你一定可以寫出好看的偵探小說。”
接著,她又在孩子手上放了一塊巧克力:“這塊巧克力獎品也給你。因為你有傑出的修復能力,雖然用的是膠水,但是,裂縫粘合得幾乎完美無缺。不過,這是修復紙質物品的,修復花瓶不僅需要黏力更強的膠水,而且需要更高的專業技術。明天,我們把花瓶拿到藝術家那裡,看看他們是怎樣使一件工藝品完好如初的。”
母親又拿起第三塊巧克力,說:“最後一塊巧克力,代表我對你深深的歉意,作為母親,我不應該把花瓶放在容易摔落的地方,尤其是家中有個熱衷體育的男孩子。希望你沒有被砸到或者嚇到。”
“媽媽,我……”
以後,這個孩子再也沒有撒過一次謊,每當他想撒謊時,三塊巧克力就會浮現在眼前。
有時候,寬容和愛,比懲罰更能讓我們的孩子健康成長,家長們一定要學習。
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