良言一句三冬暖

良言一句三冬暖

惟雯說故事

 

魯迅在《立論》中講了一個故事:

一家人生了一個男孩,全家歡天喜地。

滿月的時候,抱出來給客人看,自然是想得到一點好兆頭。

一個人說:“這孩子將來要發財的”,於是他得到一番感謝。

一個人說:“這孩子將來要做官的”,於是他得到幾句恭維。

一個人說:“這孩子將來是要死的”,於是他得到一頓大家合力的痛打。

那個遭打的完全是咎由自取,他說的是真話,但在祝賀一個滿月的小孩這樣說,卻是一句沒有人性的“真話”。

心底有愛,口下積德,好好說話,是發自心底裡的善良。

 

學誠法師亦說:“你說的話,其實就是別人眼中的你。大家都想改變自己的命運,好好說話,就是改變命運。”

 

三毛曾說:“我笑,便面如春花,定是能感動人的,任他是誰”,

好的語氣就像明媚的笑容,擁有直抵人心的力量。

好好說話的人,運氣不會差的。

 

黃渤未成名前,去試楊亞洲導演的一場戲,出演一個劫匪,導演瞅了一眼黃渤,扭頭就對身邊的工作人員說:“這是你找的?這不是瞎胡鬧嘛!這雖是個小角色,但分量重,你找這麼個演員……這什麼東西嘛?”

黃渤沒有生氣,和顏悅色地說:“導演您看我演一次成嗎?”

導演讓他演了一次,出乎意料,導演連連叫好。

黃渤又說:“我還有一種演法,您看看?”又讓他演了一次,還是好。黃渤來勁了,說:“我還有一種……”

導演說:“不用啦不用啦,非常好!”

黃渤的好人品和敬業被看在眼裡,後來寧浩主動找他演《瘋狂的石頭》,黃渤憑藉滿嘴青島話的“黑皮”一角一炮而紅。

 

成名後的黃渤,經常在各種場合被人調侃,有些是為了搞笑,有些完全是惡意的趣味,黃渤都能巧妙化解波瀾不驚。

最著名的一次,記者問他“是否能取代葛優”,黃渤說:

“這個時代不會阻止你自己閃耀,但你也覆蓋不了任何人的光輝。因為人家曾開天闢地,在中國電影那樣的時候,人家是創時代的電影人。我們只是繼續前行的一些晚輩,不敢造次。”

黃渤的回答不卑不亢,沒有貶低自己,同時也對前輩恭敬有加。

好好說話,是一種風度涵養和不讓他人尷尬的體諒,是刻在骨子裡的教養。

 

所以,你的人生運勢,取決於你口中常對人說的話語,好好說話,人生路也會越走越寬。

 

另外,有些人覺得家人之間親密無間,往往會口不擇言。

殊不知,惡毒的話語就像鋒利的刀子,刀刀割人心,惡語相向可能置整個家庭於破裂瓦解。

所以,越是親近的家人,越是要好好說話。

 

請記得,良言一句三冬暖,惡語傷人六月寒。

所以,說話請務必善良。

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