孝順的溫度
惟雯說故事
請一定要認真看完它喔!好感人耶!
爸爸的生日到了,兒子趁著這個機會,歡喜的帶著老爸爸,全家去到一家很漂亮的特色蔬食餐廳吃晚餐。
老爸爸年邁體弱,挪著腳一步一步的走著,手還抖著,走得很吃力,
但兒子一邊扶著笑著說:「快到了,爸爸最棒了。」
在中間一段走道行走時,佔據了整個通道,擋到了後面的一群年輕人,
年輕人很不耐煩的說:「拜託,可以讓我先過嗎?」
老爸爸就先挪到旁邊,低下了頭,讓人先過。
年輕人還回頭瞪了他們一眼,露出了非常嫌惡的眼色。
兒子立刻擋在爸爸和年輕人間笑著說:「加油,我們的位置快到了。」
終於走到了位置。
老爸爸喘著氣掉著汗,好不容易坐了下來。
兒子點了幾道菜,還高興的說:「這些都是精緻的健康料理,有營養又沒有負擔的,可以儘管吃。」
菜陸續的上來了,老爸爸一邊吃著,一邊把食物撒在了襯衫和褲子上,
也掉得滿地都是,還不時的發出了一些的聲音。
看得出老爸爸很努力的想控制,但抖動的手完全不聽使喚,一匙的食物要送進嘴裡都很困難。
老爸爸不喜歡人家幫他,兒子就只能陪著爸爸邊聊天,還一邊流露著歡喜的神色一起用餐。
旁邊年輕的食客厭惡地看著他們,露出了一臉討厭的眼神。
但兒子卻無比的平靜,一直歡喜的陪著老爸爸,那些真誠的笑容,是一份自然誠摯的印記,絲毫不是裝出來的。
這種孝順的溫度,慢慢溫暖著這一整個餐廳……。
吃到了中間,老爸爸想要去上廁所,兒子亦步亦趨的扶著,
好不容易的走到了廁所,潔白亮麗的廁所,馬上濺出了尿黃流出的髒污,
老人無法控制的尿得到處都是。
兒子找到了拖把,就清理了一番。
又扶著老爸爸歡歡喜喜的回到座位。
前前後後所有的過程,直到吃完了晚餐,兒子始終堆著笑臉,絲毫不感覺得尷尬,默默細心的幫老爸爸,除去飯渣,擦掉污漬,給他整理好衣服,梳理好頭髮,戴好眼鏡。
「爸爸,您吃好了嗎?」
「好了!」
「那我們回家了!」又是一陣爽朗的笑聲洋溢出來,幸福的溫馨再一次的傾瀉而出,溫暖了整個餐廳。
當他們一家站起來,走到櫃檯時,整個餐廳的人都靜靜地看著他們。
兒子結完帳單,帶著爸爸一起要往外走時;就在這時,餐館裡面的一位老人叫住了兒子,問他說:「你有沒有覺得自己留下了什麼東西?」
兒子回答說:「沒有啊!先生,我沒有留下什麼。」
老人站了起來對他說:
「你給每個做兒子的留下了榜樣,留下了典範,留下了感恩;您給每個父親留下了希望,留下了尊嚴,留下了溫馨。感謝您留下了最珍貴的東西。」
餐館裡面大家都鴉雀無聲,然後大家點頭,嚮起了如雷的掌聲;……..!
你養我小,我養你老;你陪我長大,我陪你變老。
儒家禮記內則篇曰:「子事父母,婦適舅姑之所,及所,下氣怡聲。」
孩子服侍父母,媳婦到公婆的住所,要輕聲細語,和顏悅色。
孝敬順親,最難做到的孝道就是色難!也就是給父母好的臉色。
很多人願意養老人家,但絲毫不會給老人家好的臉色。
頂撞,嫌惡,鄙夷,不屑,討厭,都像一把把的利劍,深深的扎向父母的胸口,那種痛,比斷骨更錐心更剌骨。
父母養大子女實屬不易!
所以當父母年老時,對他們多點耐心與關照!
不要因他們的行動緩慢而嫌棄!
不要因他們吃飯時撒滿桌面而暴怒!
不要因他們尿尿無法控制而鄙夷!
畢竟,我們也是這樣長大的,沒有一人是不會變老的。
分享網路教育事實好文章!值得我們好好深思啊!
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