貧困人家出狀元
惟雯說故事
貧窮是最好的大學。
古人有此一說，「富貴人家出敗家子，貧困人家出狀元」。
想想看，為何有很多沒上過學的老農民培養出了優秀的孩子；但不少有知識、高學歷的城裡人卻把孩子管出諸多毛病，甚至培養出問題孩子，為什麼？
Ans、老農民少知識、但有智慧；城裡人有知識、但缺智慧。
(而知識不等於智慧）
由以下老農民的三句話就可以看出他的人生智慧：
第一句話：「孩子，爸媽沒本事，你要靠自己了。」
—-把責任還給孩子，讓孩子擁有了責任心。
第二句話：「孩子，做事先做人，一定不能做傷害別人的事情。」
—-講德行，告訴孩子做人的標準。
第三句話：「孩子，放開手去闖吧，實在不行，回家來還有口飯吃。」
—-無盡的愛！
再看看一些城裡人怎麼把孩子教育出問題的：
第一句話：「寶貝，你好好學習就行了，其他的事情爸爸媽媽來辦！」
—-剝奪了孩子負責任的權利，培養出了沒有責任心的孩子。
第二句話：「寶貝，出去不能吃虧，別人打你一定要還手！」
—-基本的做人準則都沒有教對，可能培養出「缺德」的孩子。
第三句話：「我告訴你，你要是再不好好學習，長大沒飯吃別來找我！」
—-有條件的愛，根本不是真愛。
只要擁有智慧，每一位家長都能把孩子培養成才，而智慧與知識和學歷並不相關！
以上幾句教育孩子的話值得我們學習警愓。
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