棒球的話

棒球的話

惟雯說故事

 

有人在看棒球比賽中,領悟出人際互動的道理:

「當聽到有人罵你時,不要及時反應敏感,很容易生出是非。」

 

「我年輕的時候,跟我太太戀愛時,很喜歡我太太的善良、熱情和直率,可是婚後,我發現直腸子也挺可怕的,講話像飛機投炸彈一樣,有時難免會炸到不該炸的地方,我們動不動就吵起來。」

 

直到有一天,我在看棒球比賽時,忽然領悟了一個互動的道理:

如果我是個打擊手的話,總不該什麼球都打吧!

應該要選好球才打,如果她投出的是壞球,那麼我幹嘛一直揮棒呢?

壞話就當沒聽見,她球投偏了,未獲得回應就會自討無趣。

如果我連壞球都打,鐵遭三振,也會氣死自己。

 

我覺得拿這好壞球理論來看職場上的人際關係,還真有幾分道理:

如果人家不喜歡你,因而說出一些故意誣賴、栽贓、辱罵的話,我們不需要猛力揮棒來回應,因為那個球投得太壞,你再使力也不會打出全壘打,搞不好反而會被敵隊接殺,不如讓它無聲無息的落入捕手的手套裡。

壞球,不要打;值得打的球,再回應好了!

 

而善意又像是一顆好球,當你毫不遲疑的將球丟向對你招手的人後;有天,當你也在招手時,也會有顆球飛到你手中,或者,還不只一顆。

這是滿好玩的遊戲,你不妨也試試!

 

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