棒球的話
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有人在看棒球比賽中，領悟出人際互動的道理：
「當聽到有人罵你時，不要及時反應敏感，很容易生出是非。」
「我年輕的時候，跟我太太戀愛時，很喜歡我太太的善良、熱情和直率，可是婚後，我發現直腸子也挺可怕的，講話像飛機投炸彈一樣，有時難免會炸到不該炸的地方，我們動不動就吵起來。」
直到有一天，我在看棒球比賽時，忽然領悟了一個互動的道理：
如果我是個打擊手的話，總不該什麼球都打吧！
應該要選好球才打，如果她投出的是壞球，那麼我幹嘛一直揮棒呢？
壞話就當沒聽見，她球投偏了，未獲得回應就會自討無趣。
如果我連壞球都打，鐵遭三振，也會氣死自己。
我覺得拿這好壞球理論來看職場上的人際關係，還真有幾分道理：
如果人家不喜歡你，因而說出一些故意誣賴、栽贓、辱罵的話，我們不需要猛力揮棒來回應，因為那個球投得太壞，你再使力也不會打出全壘打，搞不好反而會被敵隊接殺，不如讓它無聲無息的落入捕手的手套裡。
壞球，不要打；值得打的球，再回應好了！
而善意又像是一顆好球，當你毫不遲疑的將球丟向對你招手的人後；有天，當你也在招手時，也會有顆球飛到你手中，或者，還不只一顆。
這是滿好玩的遊戲，你不妨也試試！
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