同理心即是大悲

同理心即是大悲

惟雯說故事

 

黃昏,寺廟裡靜悄悄的,香爐裡煙霧彌漫,僧人們正在吃晚飯。

一個男人悄悄地溜進寺廟,來到功德箱前面。

 

白天,男人曾來過一次,他看到很多人往功德箱裡放錢。

看看四周沒有人,男人便將功德箱拿下來,從裡面往外倒錢。

在一邊兒,小沙彌和師父看了個一清二楚。

 

小沙彌說:「師父,有人偷錢!」

師父說:「我知道。」

 

小沙彌說:「我們去把他抓住……」

師父說:「不用。」

 

小沙彌急了:「師父,為什麼啊?他偷了我們的錢,他是小偷!」

師父說:「他不是小偷,那不是我們的錢……」

 

「那怎麼不是我們的錢呢?」小沙彌盯著師父。

師父說:「那是人們放進去的錢,現在有人需要它,取出來,怎麼算是偷呢?」

 

小和尚聽了默默無語,他眼睜睜地看著男人將功德箱裡的錢取走。

等男人一走,小沙彌就跑到功德箱前面,他往裡面看了看,說:

「師父,裡面還有錢!」

 

師父點點頭,說:「他只是拿走了他需要的那一部分。如果他是小偷,還會留錢在裡面嗎?」

小沙彌點了點頭。

 

沒想到的是第二天黃昏,那個男人又趁著大家吃晚飯的時候溜進了寺廟,他來到功德箱前面,看看四周沒有人,又將功德箱拿下取錢。

這一次,小沙彌和師父依然看了個一清二楚。

 

小沙彌見了,說:「師父,他是小偷,他又偷我們的錢了!」

師父說:「人放錢,人取錢,人的錢人花,何為偷啊?昨天他取走一部分,因為不夠,再取走一部分,有何不可?」

 

小沙彌非常生氣,可不敢發作,只好眼睜睜看著男人取走功德箱裡的錢。

等男人一走,小沙彌就跑到功德箱前面,他往裡面看了看,發現裡面還有錢,心想男人總算不太壞,便作罷。

 

此後,男人再也沒有來寺廟。

一年之後,男人再次踏進寺廟。

男人來的時候不是黃昏,而是上午。

 

男人進了大殿,拜了佛,來到功德箱前面,他打開皮包,掏出厚厚一疊錢塞進了功德箱。

旁邊的人都張大了嘴巴--這男人也太慷慨了。

 

小沙彌看到這一幕,忍不住走上前去,問男人為何這麼大方。

男人提到了一年前的事,他說自己那時候走投無路,非常需要錢,看到功德箱裡的錢,就打起了歪主意,功德箱裡的錢讓他絕處逢生,現在他的日子變好了,他就來加倍奉還。

 

小沙彌把這事告訴了師父,師父說:「每個人都有困難的時候,只要我們給別人一條出路,別人就能走出困境,最終,我們也能得到加倍的回報。功德箱,那是人們的功德箱,也是我們的功德箱啊!」

 

後來,這事傳開了,寺廟的住持便特地放了一個功德箱在寺廟門口,小沙彌專門負責管理這個功德箱。

每天,小沙彌都會往功德箱裡裝錢,讓那些需要幫助的人去取錢。

 

開始的時候,白天裝滿錢的功德箱,第二天一早就變少了,可是幾個月後,再也不用小和尚往功德箱裡裝錢了,每天早上,功德箱裡都是滿滿的一箱錢,小和尚不得不取出很多錢,否則,裡面就裝不下了。

 

那裡面的錢,有人加倍奉還的,也有人捐獻的。

加倍奉還的人想感恩,捐獻的人想行善幫助他人。

 

不必鄙夷任何一個被生活壓彎了脊背的人,不是每個人都有"清高"的背景!誰人不渴望一種尊貴,只是英雄常是出身低?

何謂大悲?同理心即是大悲。

 

提醒大家,一個安逸、穩定、和樂的社會基礎在於「相信與感恩」。

有時候,我們必須先相信人性是良善而非貪婪,才能導引人性進入善的循環。就如同本篇故事中,師父相信從功德箱取錢的那人是因為他有困難、有急需,並不是貪圖享樂才來盜取功德箱中的錢財,而取走功德箱中的錢的那人,在走出困境後,抱持著感恩的心,將錢奉還並再捐出更多的錢來幫助更多的人。

如此,社會才有機會在「相信與感恩」不斷的正面循環下,走向安逸、穩定與和樂。

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