包容別人家的女兒
惟雯說故事
在餐館裏，負責為我們上菜的女侍，非常年輕。
我之所以注意她，是因為她上菜時笨手拙腳的，讓我老是擔心她可能會把湯汁，轉化成我的洗澡水。
我的第六感居然沒有“辜負”我。
捧上蒸魚時，盤子傾斜，腥膻的魚汁魯魯莽莽地直淋而下，潑灑在我擱於椅子的皮包上！
我本能地跳了起來，陰霾的臉，變成欲雨的天。
這皮包，是我在意大利買的，極好極軟的牛皮，不能洗滌，是我心頭的大愛。
可是，我還沒有發作，我親愛的女兒便以旋風般的速度站了起來，快步走到女侍身旁，露出了極端溫柔的笑臉，拍拍她的肩膀，說：「我們沒事，沒關係。」
女侍如受驚的小犬，手足無措地看著我的皮包，囁嚅著說：
「我，我去拿布來擦……」
萬萬想不到，女兒居然說道：「沒事，回家洗洗就乾淨了。你去忙你的吧，真的沒關係，不必放在心上。」
女兒的口氣是那麼的柔和，倒好似做錯事的人是她。
這時，女侍原本繃得像石頭一般的臉，慢慢地放鬆了，她細聲細氣地說了聲“對不起”，便低著頭走開了。
我瞪著女兒，覺得自己像一顆氣球，氣裝得過滿，要爆炸，卻又爆不了，不免辛苦。
女兒平靜地看著我，在餐館明亮的燈火下，我清楚看到她大大的眸子裏，竟然鍍著薄薄的淚光。
這樣，我不怒反驚了。
我這女兒，到底怎麼啦？
當天晚上，回返旅館之後，母女倆齊齊躺在床上，她這才亮出了葫蘆裏所賣的藥。
負笈倫敦三年，為了訓練她的獨立性，在大學的假期裏，我們不讓她回家，我們要她自行策劃背包旅行，也希望她在英國試試兼職打工的滋味。
她的大哥就曾在美國大學當過校園郵差，二哥呢，也曾擔任大學實驗室助理員。
活潑外向的女兒，在家裏十指不沾陽春水，粗工細活都輪不到她，然而，來到人生地不熟的英國，卻選擇當女侍來體驗生活。
在倫敦的第一天上工，便闖禍了。
她被分配到廚房去清洗酒杯，那些透亮細緻的高腳玻璃杯，一只只薄如蟬翅，只要力道稍稍重一點，便會分崩離析，化成一堆晶亮的碎片。
女兒戰戰兢兢，如履薄冰，好不容易將那一大堆，好似一輩子也洗不完的酒杯洗乾淨了，正鬆了一口氣時，沒有想到身子一歪，一個踉蹌，撞倒了杯子，杯子應聲倒地，“哐啷、哐啷”連續不斷的一串又一串清脆響聲過後，酒杯全化成了地上閃閃爍爍的玻璃碎片。
“媽媽，那一刻，我真有墮入地獄的感覺。”
女兒的聲音，還殘存著些許驚悸：「可是，您知道領班有什麼反應嗎？」
領班不慌不忙地走了過來，摟住了我，說：「親愛的，你沒事吧？」
接著，又轉過頭去吩咐其他員工：「趕快把碎片打掃乾淨吧！」
對我，她一句責備的話都沒有！
又有一次，女兒在倒酒時，不小心地把鮮紅如血的葡萄酒，倒在顧客乳白色的衣裙上，好似刻意為她在衣裙上，栽種了一季殘缺的九重葛。
原以為她會大發雷霆，沒想到她反而倒過來安慰她，說：「沒關係，酒漬嘛，不難洗。」
說著，站起來，輕輕拍拍她的肩膀，便”靜悄悄”走進了洗手間，不張揚、更不叫囂，把眼前這隻驚弓之鳥安撫成樑上的小燕子。
女兒的聲音，充滿了感情：「媽媽，既然別人能原諒你的女兒。您也應該原諒犯錯的人，她們也是別人家的女兒啊！」
有句諺語說﹕「仙人打鼓有時錯，腳步踏錯誰人無」，人生在世，難免會有犯錯造成他人不便之處，而當我們犯錯時，難免會想乞求對方的原諒。
在期許當我們犯錯時，旁人能夠諒解我們之前，先學會原諒那些無心犯錯、造成我們不便的人，若人人都能有這樣的寬容的肚量，人與人相處又何嘗會不融洽。
當然，犯錯受到訓斥是理所當然的，人要為自己所犯的錯付出相同的代價，並深深的為自己的行為懺悔﹔然若遇到心胸寬厚之人的原諒，更應該對自己的行為有所自省，並時時警愓自己不在犯錯。
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