色即是空
惟雯說故事
一位婦人跳河尋死，被路過的船夫搭救了。
船夫詢問她自殺原因，婦人說：「因為丈夫猝逝，覺得自己沒有丈夫，活不下去了。」
船夫又問：「結婚了多久？」
婦人說：「三年。」
船夫又問：「沒結婚前，做什麼工作？」
婦人答：「在村裡染布。」
船夫問：「那時生活過得如何？」
婦人說：「還算愜意。」
船夫說：「那時也沒有丈夫，為何活得下去？」
婦人啞然。
船夫最後說：「找回那個沒有結婚前的你吧！那時一個人，不也覺得快樂嗎？」
有一位旅館大亨發現，每天都有一位流浪漢坐在公園的凳子上死盯著他的旅館看，大亨覺得十分好奇。
有一天，他終於忍不住走向那位流浪漢說：「不好意思，老兄，我想請教一下，為什麼你每天都盯著那棟旅館看呢？」
流浪漢說：「因為那棟旅館太美了，雖然我一無所有，睡在長凳上，但我每天這樣看著它，晚上就會夢到自己住在裡面。」
大亨聽了很得意，就說：「老兄，今天我就讓你如願以償，我將讓你免費住進這旅館最好的房間一個月。」
一個星期以後，旅館大亨回來想看看流浪漢住的情形如何，卻發現這個人居然已經搬出旅館，重新回到公園的長凳上。
大亨問流浪漢到底發生了什麼事？
流浪漢說：「之前我睡長凳上，夢見住在旅館裡，那很好；可是一旦睡在旅館裡，我就夢見自己又回到硬梆梆的板凳上，真是可怕極了，所以我就待不下去了！」
大亨聽了哈哈大笑說：「原來人沒有的時候也苦，有的時候也苦啊！」
的確，人生的苦，其實與「有」或「沒有」無關，而是跟執著有關，沒有的時候羨慕，有的時候又恐懼失去，都苦。
套用佛家用語，沒有什麼是絕對必須的—「色即是空」。
這給人相當高深的感覺，或許有人不瞭解其中的意思。其實這句話並不難懂，「色」就是指「一切你認為必須的東西」，包括任何物質層面或精神層面的事物。「即是空」的意思就是說：「其實沒有一樣事物是絕對必須的」。
有一天，你會發現，若你能從特定領域的苦裡面得到解脫，都是因為在那個領域發現到這個事實。關於快樂和自尊，沒有什麼是「絕對必須的」，也就沒有失去的恐懼。
其實，任何的「絕對必須」都只是跟習慣有關。也就是說，一旦習慣改變，原先的「必須」就不再是必須了。
比如習慣開車的人，就覺得有車是必須；習慣上網的人，就覺得網絡是必須…。但對沒車、沒網絡的人而言，這些都不是必須，也就沒有失去的恐懼。
想像一下，蘇格拉底曾經站在買賣百物的市場中開懷大笑：「看哪，天底下有這麼多我不需要的東西，我真幸福啊！」
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