亢龍有悔
惟雯說故事
宋朝的法演禪師有回說戒：
「勢不可使盡，使盡則禍必至；福不可受盡，受盡則緣必孤；話不可說盡，說盡則人必易(易，生變也)；規矩不可行盡，行盡則人必繁。」
這就是在警示我們，凡事皆不可太過極端、絕斷，當留點空間給自己或別人。
「勢不可使盡」：
有人認為權力在握，吆三喝四，是人生最得意的事。更有些人，更是乘勢而起，爭一時的龍鳳。而不知道，勢力一用盡災禍到來時，正如「飛鳥盡良弓藏，狡兔死走狗烹」，後悔都來不及了。
「福不可受盡」：
有的人認為擁有了錢財，人生就很幸福。但是金錢若使用不當，往往是罪惡的來源。
而今日社會上更有許多不知慈悲助人，只知守住金錢，他們雖然富甲一方，但是因為不會使用金錢，「金錢」只會徒然增加他們的煩惱與業障而已！
更有人行樂及時，「有福不享人笑痴」。但是他們不知道，福如果享盡，就算是天人，也會有「五衰相」的現象；更何況我們這些博地凡夫，業深福薄，失人身易，得人身難。
縱情財色名食睡，恐怕要墮入地獄，變成閻羅王的點心了。
「話不可說盡」：
凡事要留個餘地，愈是憤怒的時候，愈是要克制自己，不輕易口出惡言，傷人傷己。
佛經上說：「瞋火能燒功德林。」
一時的怒氣，無心的言語，往往會毀掉多年辛苦培養的友誼與功德。待人謙遜包容，不驕矜，不恃寵，靜坐常常思維自己的過錯，閒談時不要去談論別人的是非，要常常反省檢討自己的缺失，而不斤斤計較別人的過錯。
寧可他人負我，我決不負他人，以責人之心責己，以恕己之心恕人。能夠以如此寬容，體諒的心來對待社會生活的一切，擺在眼前的必定是一條坦蕩的大道。
「規矩不可行盡」：
但是有的人，發號施令，自以為威儀具足，唯我獨尊。
卻不知道，好的翁姑，也不能不「不痴不聾」；調和君臣的宰相，更不能不「肚大撐船」。
明察秋毫，戒律森嚴，往往刻薄寡恩，要明白，就算是佛戒也有開解。
微信 
留言列表（10,865条）
You can definitely see your enthusiasm in the work you write.
The world hopes for more passionate writers such as you who aren’t
afraid to mention how they believe. All the time go after your heart.
Does your blog have a contact page? I’m having trouble locating it but, I’d like
to send you an e-mail. I’ve got some suggestions for your blog you might be
interested in hearing. Either way, great website and I look forward
to seeing it grow over time.
I am really thankful to the holder of this web site who has shared this wonderful article at at this place.
Attractive element of content. I just stumbled upon your weblog and in accession capital to say that I get actually loved account your weblog
posts. Any way I’ll be subscribing for your augment or even I
achievement you get admission to constantly fast.
I have learn some good stuff here. Certainly price
bookmarking for revisiting. I surprise how much
effort you place to create this sort of excellent informative site.
I know this site offers quality dependent articles and additional information, is there any other website which presents these
information in quality?
I’m not sure where you are getting your information, but
great topic. I needs to spend some time learning much more or understanding more.
Thanks for great information I was looking for this info for my mission.
I truly love your blog.. Great colors & theme.
Did you make this amazing site yourself? Please reply back as I’m attempting to create my own personal
website and would love to find out where you
got this from or exactly what the theme is named. Thank you!
Heya i am for the first time here. I came across
this board and I find It truly helpful & it helped
me out much. I am hoping to provide one thing again and help
others such as you helped me.
hello!,I like your writing very a lot! share we communicate extra about your article on AOL?
I need a specialist on this area to solve my problem.
May be that is you! Looking forward to peer
you.
Undeniably consider that which you said. Your favourite justification seemed to be on the internet the easiest thing to take into account
of. I say to you, I certainly get annoyed even as people think
about issues that they plainly don’t know about.
You controlled to hit the nail upon the highest and outlined out the entire thing with no need side effect , other folks can take a signal.
Will likely be back to get more. Thanks
With havin so much content do you ever run into any problems
of plagorism or copyright violation? My blog has a lot of exclusive content
I’ve either authored myself or outsourced
but it appears a lot of it is popping it up all over the
web without my agreement. Do you know any solutions
to help stop content from being stolen? I’d really appreciate
it.
I was excited to uncover this great site. I want to to thank
you for ones time for this fantastic read!!
I definitely appreciated every bit of it and I have you saved as a favorite
to check out new things in your blog.
Excellent blog! Do you have any tips for aspiring writers?
I’m hoping to start my own website soon but I’m a little lost on everything.
Would you suggest starting with a free platform like WordPress or go for a paid option?
There are so many choices out there that I’m
totally confused .. Any suggestions? Thank you!
Hey! This post couldn’t be written any better! Reading this post reminds me of my old room mate!
He always kept chatting about this. I will forward this post to him.
Fairly certain he will have a good read. Thanks for sharing!
It is in reality a great and helpful piece of info. I’m satisfied that you shared
this helpful info with us. Please keep us informed like this.
Thank you for sharing.
Admiring the persistence you put into your blog and detailed information you
provide. It’s good to come across a blog every once in a
while that isn’t the same outdated rehashed information. Excellent read!
I’ve saved your site and I’m adding your RSS feeds to my Google account.
Nicht alle Videoformate und -Codecs eignen sich für den Einsatz im Web,
und nicht jeder Browser ist mit jedem Format kompatibel.
Hello, i believe that i saw you visited my site thus
i got here to return the desire?.I am attempting to in finding things to improve
my site!I guess its good enough to use a few of
your concepts!!
My spouse and I stumbled over here by a different website and
thought I might as well check things out. I like what I see so now i
am following you. Look forward to checking out your web page yet again.
This page definitely has all of the information I needed concerning this subject and didn’t know
who to ask.
You can definitely see your skills in the work you write.
The sector hopes for even more passionate writers such as you who are not afraid to
say how they believe. All the time follow your heart.
Hi, i believe that i saw you visited my blog thus i got here to return the
want?.I’m trying to to find issues to enhance my site!I suppose its ok to make use of some of
your ideas!!
Pretty! This has been a really wonderful article.
Many thanks for providing this information.
Wow, this post is fastidious, my younger sister is analyzing these things,
so I am going to convey her.
I am sure this paragraph has touched all the internet visitors,
its really really nice piece of writing on building up new website.
Thanks for sharing your info. I truly appreciate your efforts
and I am waiting for your next post thank you once again.
Wow, this piece of writing is fastidious, my younger sister is analyzing
these kinds of things, so I am going to let know her.
I am no longer certain the place you’re getting your
info, but great topic. I must spend some time studying much more
or understanding more. Thank you for excellent information I was on the lookout for this information for my mission.
I will immediately seize your rss as I can not in finding your email subscription link
or e-newsletter service. Do you’ve any? Kindly allow me recognize in order that I
could subscribe. Thanks.
It’s a pity you don’t have a donate button! I’d certainly donate to this fantastic blog!
I suppose for now i’ll settle for bookmarking and adding your RSS feed to my Google
account. I look forward to fresh updates and will share this website with my Facebook group.
Talk soon!
I absolutely love your blog and find a lot of your post’s to be exactly what I’m looking for.
Does one offer guest writers to write content available
for you? I wouldn’t mind writing a post or elaborating on a number of the subjects you write in relation to here.
Again, awesome blog!
I know this site provides quality based articles or reviews and additional data,
is there any other web site which gives these information in quality?
Hello, I think your site might be having browser
compatibility issues. When I look at your blog site in Opera, it looks
fine but when opening in Internet Explorer, it has some overlapping.
I just wanted to give you a quick heads up! Other then that,
great blog!
Just wish to say your article is as astonishing.
The clearness on your submit is just spectacular and i could think
you’re an expert in this subject. Fine together with your permission let me
to grab your RSS feed to keep updated with imminent post.
Thanks one million and please keep up the rewarding work.
It’s really a great and useful piece of info.
I’m satisfied that you shared this useful information with us.
Please keep us up to date like this. Thanks for sharing.
Hmm is anyone else having problems with the pictures on this
blog loading? I’m trying to figure out if its a problem on my end
or if it’s the blog. Any feedback would be greatly appreciated.
I read this article fully regarding the comparison of most recent and previous technologies, it’s amazing article.
Write more, thats all I have to say. Literally, it seems as though
you relied on the video to make your point. You obviously know what youre talking about,
why throw away your intelligence on just posting videos to your site
when you could be giving us something enlightening to read?
Thanks to my father who told me about this web site, this website is truly amazing.
Way cool! Some very valid points! I appreciate you penning this
article and the rest of the site is extremely good.
Get pleasure from an extra 10% low cost on your purchases by utilizing the unique Splash promo
code. With Splash Vogue Ramadan Provides 2020 you will get super offers and presents solely at Barakatalan. Stay
tuned with us to get the most recent and verified Jamalon Coupons, discount codes, offers, and deals.
The passionate group of Rezeem collects and updates all obtainable latest Amazon vouchers and low cost codes at this superior page.
Discover the timeline of this retailer to grab thrilling provides
with the vouchers obtainable at Asaan. Moreover, Splash KSA
Gives are mind-blowing, which are selected based mostly on preferences
and in-pattern items. Whether or not you are attending a Marriage ceremony,
Graduation, Business Assembly or Dinner, these footwear
are sure to make you stand out and go away a lasting impression.
My family members every time say that I am
killing my time here at web, however I know
I am getting experience every day by reading such fastidious content.
Thank you for the auspicious writeup. It in fact was a amusement account it.
Look advanced to more added agreeable from
you! By the way, how can we communicate?
After going over a handful of the articles on your web site, I really
like your technique of blogging. I added it to my bookmark site list
and will be checking back soon. Take a look at my web site as well and let me
know how you feel.
I am really impressed with your writing skills and also with the layout on your weblog.
Is this a paid theme or did you customize it
yourself? Anyway keep up the excellent quality writing, it
is rare to see a nice blog like this one nowadays.
You really make it seem so easy with your presentation but I find this topic to be really something that I think I
would never understand. It seems too complicated and very broad for me.
I am looking forward for your next post, I’ll try to get the hang of it!
Does your blog have a contact page? I’m having a tough time locating it
but, I’d like to shoot you an email. I’ve got some suggestions for
your blog you might be interested in hearing.
Either way, great site and I look forward to seeing it
improve over time.
We absolutely love your blog and find the majority of your post’s to
be exactly I’m looking for. can you offer guest writers to write content for you?
I wouldn’t mind producing a post or elaborating on some of the subjects you
write concerning here. Again, awesome site!
Thank you for the good writeup. It in fact was a amusement account it.
Look advanced to far added agreeable from you!
However, how could we communicate?