輕易給予,是對別人不尊重
惟雯說故事
盧安達的悲苦,可能對於一般人只能想像。
有一位台灣來的義工,到了盧安達,下了卡車以後,看到一位瘦骨嶙峋、衣不蔽體的黑人男孩朝他跑來。
當時,這台灣來的義工馬上動了憐憫之心,轉身就去拿了車上的物品向小男孩走去。
一位美國義工馬上大聲對台灣來的義工喝斥:「你要幹甚麼?放下!」
台灣義工愣住了,心裏想著:「他是怎麼了?我們不是要來做慈善工作嗎?」
美國義工朝小男孩俯下身子說:「你好,我們從很遠的地方來,車上有很多東西,你能幫我們搬下來嗎?我們會付報酬的。」
小男孩遲疑在原地,這時又有不少孩子跑來,美國義工又對他們說了一遍相同的話。
有個孩子就嘗試從車上往下搬了一桶餅乾。
美國義工拿起一床棉被和一桶餅乾遞給他說:「非常感謝你,這是獎勵你的,其他人願意一起幫忙嗎?」
其他孩子也都勁頭十足一擁而上,沒多久就卸貨完畢。
義工給每個孩子一份救濟物品。
這時又來了一個孩子,看到卡車上已經沒有實物可以幫忙搬了,覺得十分失望。
美國義工對他說:「你看,大家都搬累了,你可以為我們唱首歌嗎?你的歌聲會讓我們感到快樂!」
孩子唱了首當地的歌,義工照樣也給了他一份物品:「謝謝你,你的歌聲非常美妙。」
台灣來的義工看著這些若有所思。
晚上,美國義工對他說:「對不起,我為早上的態度向你道歉,我不該那麼大聲對你說話。但,你知道嗎?這裡的孩子陷在貧窮裡,不是他們的過錯!可是如果因為你輕而易舉就把東西給他們,讓他們以為貧窮可以成為不勞而獲的謀生手段,因此而更加貧窮,這就是你的錯!」
這天,來自台灣的義工度過了不尋常的一天。
義工把東西給孩子,可要求他們以勞動獲取。
上天把恩典和愛給我們,但要求我們努力奔跑。
家庭教育也應如此!
不要輕易的給予,別讓孩子認為一切都是父母應該給予的!
父母沒有欠孩子任何東西,而是孩子要懂得父母給予的點滴都要感恩!
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