最硬的背景是人品
惟雯說故事
朋友的女兒大學畢業,除了學韓語專業,又特別選修了國際貿易。
她畢業求職面試時,在進入最後一輪面試的時候,同行的有三個,
一個是浙江大學的,已經在韓國留學了半年;一個是山東大學的,也是韓語專業;只有她是二本的。
面試的過程中,她不停地幫助那兩個人,或出主意,或回答問題。
最後輪到她面試,主考官就問她:“你難道不知道那兩個人,都是你的對手嗎?他們中間有一個被錄取,你就被淘汰了!”
朋友的女兒笑笑說:“我知道,可是我覺得這個位置,更適合他們。”
主考官就問她:“為什麼?”
朋友的女兒說:“因為他們一個比我有經驗,一個比我有能力。你們需要的,就是他們這樣的人才。”
然而主考官當場就告訴她:“我們需要他們這樣的人才,卻更需要你這樣的人品!你被錄取了!”
工作了一段時間之後,因為她口語好,又學過國際貿易,很快被調到人事部。
有人問她:“以你這樣的學歷、這樣的品貌,這麼快就升到人事部,得多硬的關係呀?”她笑而不語。
因為,再硬的關係,也硬不過好的人品啊!
所有的成功,都是做人的成功!
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劉邦和項羽爭雄天下,一個是百戰百勝,所向披靡的西楚霸王;一個是屢敗屢戰、打不過就跑的漢中王。
為什麼項羽一世英雄,最後兵敗垓下?
為什麼劉邦一介布衣,卻崛起於亂世,最終成為漢代的開國皇帝?
項羽雖然為人豪爽,來去磊落,是很多人心中的大英雄,但項羽目光短淺,用人唯親,遇到大事優柔寡斷,最終致使他鴻門宴放走了劉邦,才因而痛失天下。
如果他有了自己的血氣方剛、英勇善戰,又兼備劉邦的老謀深算、知人善用,那麼中國的歷史,恐怕真的要改寫了。
而他的對手劉邦,不僅虛己聽人,知人善用,而且賞不移時,深謀遠慮。與其說項羽敗給了劉邦的老謀深算,不如說項羽敗給了自己的人品!
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再看看三國亂世,劉備最初既無兵將,又無立錐之地,他又憑什麼三分天下有其一呢?
看看歷史上對劉備的評介吧:
劉備,以其堅忍不拔、遵法守禮、知人善用的個人品質,和對兄弟行義、對臣下行禮、對百姓行仁的一生作為中,在三國之後的一千多年間,一直被儒家士子看作是理想君主的典範。
有一句俗語說得好:“劉備的江山是哭來的”。
然後再翻翻三國演義,你就會明白,劉備除了知人善用,最重要的一點就是講仁義!三分天下有其一,他憑的就是他的人品!
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