亢龍有悔
惟雯說故事
宋朝的法演禪師有回說戒：
「勢不可使盡，使盡則禍必至；福不可受盡，受盡則緣必孤；話不可說盡，說盡則人必易(易，生變也)；規矩不可行盡，行盡則人必繁。」
這就是在警示我們，凡事皆不可太過極端、絕斷，當留點空間給自己或別人。
「勢不可使盡」：
有人認為權力在握，吆三喝四，是人生最得意的事。更有些人，更是乘勢而起，爭一時的龍鳳。而不知道，勢力一用盡災禍到來時，正如「飛鳥盡良弓藏，狡兔死走狗烹」，後悔都來不及了。
「福不可受盡」：
有的人認為擁有了錢財，人生就很幸福。但是金錢若使用不當，往往是罪惡的來源。
而今日社會上更有許多不知慈悲助人，只知守住金錢，他們雖然富甲一方，但是因為不會使用金錢，「金錢」只會徒然增加他們的煩惱與業障而已！
更有人行樂及時，「有福不享人笑痴」。但是他們不知道，福如果享盡，就算是天人，也會有「五衰相」的現象；更何況我們這些博地凡夫，業深福薄，失人身易，得人身難。
縱情財色名食睡，恐怕要墮入地獄，變成閻羅王的點心了。
「話不可說盡」：
凡事要留個餘地，愈是憤怒的時候，愈是要克制自己，不輕易口出惡言，傷人傷己。
佛經上說：「瞋火能燒功德林。」
一時的怒氣，無心的言語，往往會毀掉多年辛苦培養的友誼與功德。待人謙遜包容，不驕矜，不恃寵，靜坐常常思維自己的過錯，閒談時不要去談論別人的是非，要常常反省檢討自己的缺失，而不斤斤計較別人的過錯。
寧可他人負我，我決不負他人，以責人之心責己，以恕己之心恕人。能夠以如此寬容，體諒的心來對待社會生活的一切，擺在眼前的必定是一條坦蕩的大道。
「規矩不可行盡」：
但是有的人，發號施令，自以為威儀具足，唯我獨尊。
卻不知道，好的翁姑，也不能不「不痴不聾」；調和君臣的宰相，更不能不「肚大撐船」。
明察秋毫，戒律森嚴，往往刻薄寡恩，要明白，就算是佛戒也有開解。
微信 
留言列表（73,119条）
I will immediately grasp your rss as I can’t find your e-mail subscription hyperlink or
newsletter service. Do you’ve any? Please allow me know so that I
could subscribe. Thanks.
Hey There. I found your blog using msn. This is a really well written article.
I will make sure to bookmark it and return to read more of your useful information.
Thanks for the post. I will certainly comeback.
Greetings I am so delighted I found your website,
I really found you by accident, while I was browsing on Yahoo for
something else, Anyways I am here now and would just like to say many thanks for a incredible post and a all round exciting blog (I also love the theme/design), I don’t have
time to read it all at the moment but I have saved it and also included your RSS feeds, so when I have time I will be back to read more, Please do keep up the
superb b.
This blog was… how do I say it? Relevant!!
Finally I’ve found something which helped me. Cheers!
Quality articles or reviews is the important to invite
the people to go to see the website, that’s what this website is providing.
My brother recommended I might like this website. He used to
be totally right. This post actually made my day.
You can not consider simply how much time I had spent for
this info! Thanks!
I am regular reader, how are you everybody? This piece of writing posted at this website is genuinely fastidious.
I love what you guys are usually up too.
This sort of clever work and reporting! Keep up the wonderful works guys
I’ve incorporated you guys to my own blogroll.
I constantly spent my half an hour to read this weblog’s articles or reviews everyday along with a cup of coffee.
Wow, incredible weblog structure! How lengthy have
you ever been blogging for? you made blogging look
easy. The whole look of your website is magnificent, as neatly as the content!
It’s amazing for me to have a site, which is valuable designed for my know-how.
thanks admin
Howdy! I know this is sort of off-topic however I had to
ask. Does operating a well-established blog like yours require a
lot of work? I’m brand new to operating a blog but I do write in my diary daily.
I’d like to start a blog so I can easily share my personal experience and feelings online.
Please let me know if you have any recommendations or tips
for new aspiring bloggers. Appreciate it!
I every time spent my half an hour to read this
web site’s posts everyday along with a cup of coffee.
Highly descriptive article, I liked that bit.
Will there be a part 2?
I’m not sure where you are getting your information,
but great topic. I needs to spend some time learning
much more or understanding more. Thanks for
magnificent information I was looking for this info for my mission.
I have been surfing on-line greater than 3 hours today, yet I
by no means found any interesting article like yours.
It’s lovely worth enough for me. In my opinion, if all
website owners and bloggers made good content material as you did, the net might be much more useful than ever
before.
I am really inspired along with your writing skills as well as with the layout in your weblog.
Is that this a paid topic or did you modify it yourself?
Anyway keep up the excellent high quality writing, it
is uncommon to look a nice blog like this one today..
My ѕpoᥙse annd Ӏ stumbⅼed οver here coming from a different
page and thought I should check thjings out. I like wһat I sеe so now i am following you.
Look forward tto checking out ʏour web page again.
Everyone loves what you guys tend to be up too. This type of
clever work and coverage! Keep up the awesome works guys I’ve
added you guys to my blogroll.
Does your blog have a contact page? I’m having a tough time locating it but,
I’d like to send you an email. I’ve got some suggestions
for your blog you might be interested in hearing. Either way,
great website and I look forward to seeing it develop over time.
درب اتوماتیک
I am extremely impressed together with your writing abilities
as neatly as with the format to your blog. Is this a paid topic or did you modify
it yourself? Either way stay up the nice high quality writing, it’s uncommon to look a great weblog like
this one nowadays..
Greetings! I know this is kind of off topic but
I was wondering if you knew where I could get a captcha plugin for my comment form?
I’m using the same blog platform as yours and I’m having trouble finding one?
Thanks a lot!
I got this web site from my friend who informed me concerning this website and at the moment this
time I am browsing this site and reading very informative articles at this place.
It’s remarkable designed for me to have a web site, which is useful designed for my experience.
thanks admin
Hey there! I could have sworn I’ve been to this blog before but after browsing through some of the post I realized it’s new to me.
Anyways, I’m definitely happy I found it and I’ll be book-marking and
checking back frequently!
Hmm is anyone else having problems with the images on this blog loading?
I’m trying to determine if its a problem on my end or if it’s
the blog. Any feedback would be greatly appreciated.
تعمیر درب اتوماتیک
Simply wish to say your article is as astonishing. The clarity
for your publish is just nice and i can think you are an expert in this subject.
Fine along with your permission let me to clutch your
RSS feed to keep up to date with approaching post.
Thanks a million and please keep up the gratifying work.
Appreciating the persistence you put into your site and detailed
information you offer. It’s awesome to come across a blog every once in a while that isn’t the same
out of date rehashed information. Fantastic read!
I’ve bookmarked your site and I’m including your RSS feeds to my Google account.
Hey there! This post could not be written any better!
Reading this post reminds me of my previous room mate!
He always kept talking about this. I will forward this article to him.
Pretty sure he will have a good read. Thank you for sharing!
This is my first time pay a visit at here and i
am in fact happy to read everthing at single place.
At this moment I am going away to do my breakfast, when having my breakfast coming yet again to
read additional news.
Hello friends, how is the whole thing, and what you would like to say about this article,
in my view its actually amazing in support of me.
Great blog here! Also your site loads up very fast!
What host are you using? Can I get your affiliate
link to your host? I wish my website loaded up as fast
as yours lol
Having read this I thought it was very enlightening.
I appreciate you finding the time and effort to put this short article
together. I once again find myself personally spending way too much time both reading and posting
comments. But so what, it was still worth it!
Keep on working, great job!
I used to be suggested this blog through my cousin. I’m no longer certain whether this post
is written by way of him as nobody else recognise such specific about my difficulty.
You are amazing! Thank you!
Great article. I am facing many of these issues as well..
I am curious to find out what blog system you’re working with?
I’m having some minor security problems with
my latest blog and I would like to find something more risk-free.
Do you have any recommendations?
This article is truly a good one it helps new net visitors,
who are wishing in favor of blogging.
I was able to find good advice from your articles.
Good day! Do you use Twitter? I’d like to follow
you if that would be ok. I’m definitely enjoying your blog
and look forward to new updates.
کرکره صنعتی
I’m not sure exactly why but this web site is loading very slow for me.
Is anyone else having this issue or is it a issue on my end?
I’ll check back later on and see if the problem still exists.
Hello to every one, it’s really a fastidious for me to go to
see this web page, it contains important Information.
Everything is very open with a very clear description of the challenges.
It was really informative. Your website is useful. Thanks for sharing!
My spouse and I stumbled over here different web page and thought I should check things out.
I like what I see so now i am following you. Look forward
to looking into your web page yet again.
Hi there, I enjoy reading through your article post.
I wanted to write a little comment to support you.
My spouse and I stumbled over here from a different web address and thought I may as well check things out.
I like what I see so i am just following you.
Look forward to exploring your web page again.