亢龍有悔
惟雯說故事
宋朝的法演禪師有回說戒：
「勢不可使盡，使盡則禍必至；福不可受盡，受盡則緣必孤；話不可說盡，說盡則人必易(易，生變也)；規矩不可行盡，行盡則人必繁。」
這就是在警示我們，凡事皆不可太過極端、絕斷，當留點空間給自己或別人。
「勢不可使盡」：
有人認為權力在握，吆三喝四，是人生最得意的事。更有些人，更是乘勢而起，爭一時的龍鳳。而不知道，勢力一用盡災禍到來時，正如「飛鳥盡良弓藏，狡兔死走狗烹」，後悔都來不及了。
「福不可受盡」：
有的人認為擁有了錢財，人生就很幸福。但是金錢若使用不當，往往是罪惡的來源。
而今日社會上更有許多不知慈悲助人，只知守住金錢，他們雖然富甲一方，但是因為不會使用金錢，「金錢」只會徒然增加他們的煩惱與業障而已！
更有人行樂及時，「有福不享人笑痴」。但是他們不知道，福如果享盡，就算是天人，也會有「五衰相」的現象；更何況我們這些博地凡夫，業深福薄，失人身易，得人身難。
縱情財色名食睡，恐怕要墮入地獄，變成閻羅王的點心了。
「話不可說盡」：
凡事要留個餘地，愈是憤怒的時候，愈是要克制自己，不輕易口出惡言，傷人傷己。
佛經上說：「瞋火能燒功德林。」
一時的怒氣，無心的言語，往往會毀掉多年辛苦培養的友誼與功德。待人謙遜包容，不驕矜，不恃寵，靜坐常常思維自己的過錯，閒談時不要去談論別人的是非，要常常反省檢討自己的缺失，而不斤斤計較別人的過錯。
寧可他人負我，我決不負他人，以責人之心責己，以恕己之心恕人。能夠以如此寬容，體諒的心來對待社會生活的一切，擺在眼前的必定是一條坦蕩的大道。
「規矩不可行盡」：
但是有的人，發號施令，自以為威儀具足，唯我獨尊。
卻不知道，好的翁姑，也不能不「不痴不聾」；調和君臣的宰相，更不能不「肚大撐船」。
明察秋毫，戒律森嚴，往往刻薄寡恩，要明白，就算是佛戒也有開解。
微信 
留言列表（70,894条）
I have discovered to trust your suggestions implicitly. Maintain them coming!
I like it when people come together and share ideas.
Great site, continue the good work!
Do you have any video of that? I’d care to find out more details.
My brother recommended I might like this blog. He was entirely right.
This post actually made my day. You can not imagine just how much time I had spent for this info!
Thanks!
I’m often fired up to view a different article from you in my feed.
I’m not that much of a online reader to be honest but your sites really nice,
keep it up! I’ll go ahead and bookmark your website to come back later.
All the best
A metal awning extends out from the industrial building with a roof-like
framework that protects those under it.
Wow, superb weblog format! How lengthy have you ever been blogging for?
you made running a blog look easy. The total glance of your web site is magnificent, as smartly as the content!
I like the helpful information you provide in your articles.
I’ll bookmark your weblog and check again here regularly.
I’m quite certain I will learn many new stuff right here! Best of luck for the next!
You’ve got a legitimate present for producing Finding out fascinating and available.
I enjoy the hassle you place into this put up. It’s noticeable that you are obsessed with this subject matter.
I’m no longer certain where you are getting your info, however great topic.
I must spend some time learning more or figuring
out more. Thanks for excellent info I used to be searching for
this information for my mission.
Your written content sparks my curiosity and keeps me returning for more.
Your insights have grown to be A necessary Section of my awareness journey.
This submit justifies to go viral. It is really that valuable.
Hey I know this is off topic but I was wondering if you knew of any widgets I
could add to my blog that automatically tweet my newest twitter updates.
I’ve been looking for a plug-in like this for quite some time and was
hoping maybe you would have some experience with something
like this. Please let me know if you run into anything.
I truly enjoy reading your blog and I look forward to your new updates.
I am genuinely thankful to the owner of this site who has shared this wonderful
article at at this time.
Hi there, i read your blog from time to time and i own a similar one and i was just wondering if
you get a lot of spam feedback? If so how do you reduce it,
any plugin or anything you can suggest? I get so much lately it’s driving me crazy so any assistance is very much appreciated.
It’s very effortless to find out any matter on net as compared to books, as I found this piece of
writing at this web page.
What’s Taking place i am new to this, I stumbled upon this I have discovered It positively helpful and it
has aided me out loads. I hope to contribute & aid other users like its aided me.
Great job.
Your web site can be a treasure trove of valuable details. Thank you!
Definitely believe that which you stated. Your favorite reason seemed to be on the net the easiest thing to be aware of.
I say to you, I certainly get annoyed while people think about worries that
they plainly don’t know about. You managed to hit the nail upon the top
and defined out the whole thing without having side effect , people can take a signal.
Will probably be back to get more. Thanks
Its like you read my mind! You seem to grasp a lot about this, like
you wrote the e book in it or something. I feel that you could do with a few %
to force the message home a little bit, but other than that, this is great blog.
An excellent read. I’ll definitely be back.
What’s Going down i am new to this, I stumbled upon this
I’ve found It absolutely helpful and it has aided me out loads.
I’m hoping to contribute & assist different users like its aided me.
Good job.
Spot on with this write-up, I seriously feel this site needs a
lot more attention. I’ll probably be returning to see more, thanks for the advice!
Wow, that’s what I was seeking for, what a stuff! present here at this blog, thanks
admin of this web site.
Highly descriptive article, I liked that bit.
Will there be a part 2?
There is certainly a lot to find out about this issue. I like all the points you have
made.
You have a knack for generating the reader experience A part of the conversation.
Your crafting is really a breath of fresh new air. It’s excellent to go through something that’s not merely regurgitating the usual facts.
Hi there, You have done an excellent job.
I’ll certainly digg it and personally suggest to my friends.
I am confident they will be benefited from this website.
WOW just what I was searching for. Came here by
searching for advisor in singapore
I can help you with audio problems, or any added problems.
My programmer is trying to persuade me to move to .net from
PHP. I have always disliked the idea because of the costs.
But he’s tryiong none the less. I’ve been using Movable-type on a number of
websites for about a year and am anxious about switching to another platform.
I have heard fantastic things about blogengine.net.
Is there a way I can transfer all my wordpress posts into it?
Any kind of help would be really appreciated!
Way cool! Some very valid points! I appreciate you writing this post and also the rest of
the site is extremely good.
Below, let’s uncover some commercial awning design concepts for companies.
I got this site from my friend who shared with me concerning this website and now this time I am browsing
this site and reading very informative articles or reviews at this place.
Your website is my go-to source for reliable and insightful content material.
You actually make it seem so easy with your presentation but I find
this topic to be really something which I think I would never understand.
It seems too complicated and very broad for
me. I am looking forward for your next post, I’ll try to get the hang of it!
Pretty! This was an incredibly wonderful article. Many thanks for supplying these details.
I love your blog.. very nice colors & theme. Did you design this website yourself or
did you hire someone to do it for you? Plz reply as I’m looking to design my own blog and would like to
find out where u got this from. thank you
I loved as much as you’ll receive carried out right here.
The sketch is attractive, your authored material stylish.
nonetheless, you command get got an impatience over that you wish
be delivering the following. unwell unquestionably come
more formerly again since exactly the same nearly a lot often inside case you shield this hike.
This write-up resonated with me on a great number of ranges. Perfectly performed!
I’m not sure where you are getting your info, but good topic.
I needs to spend some time learning more or
understanding more. Thanks for fantastic information I was looking for this information for my mission.
Your crafting is so apparent and concise that even a newbie could have an understanding of this subject matter. Thank you for rendering it accessible.
Your put up actually resonated with me. It’s clear that you simply place loads of believed into your creating.
Nice post. I learn something new and challenging on blogs I stumbleupon every
day. It will always be helpful to read through articles from other writers and practice something from their websites.
I’ve recommended your website to my colleagues, and so they love it much too.
I have been exploring for a bit for any high
quality articles or blog posts on this sort
of area . Exploring in Yahoo I at last stumbled upon this website.
Studying this information So i am happy to show that I’ve a
very good uncanny feeling I discovered exactly what I needed.
I so much indubitably will make sure to don?t fail to remember
this site and give it a glance regularly.
Superb post but I was wondering if you could write a litte
more on this topic? I’d be very grateful if you could elaborate
a little bit further. Thank you!