愛需要花時間去保溫
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有一位老總,來參加我週三的一個講座,他說:老早就想來參加我的講座了,但我的講座不是週六就是周日,然而週六、周日是他“法定”的“愛家日”,必須陪老婆、孩子,無法參加,這次逢上週三,終於如願以償了。
愛的溫度,是需要花時間去保溫的,無論是在戀愛中或是已經有兒有女的家庭,都需要我們花時間去培育,去用點點滴滴的時間去滋潤自己一生中最重要的愛情。
在這個愛情和婚姻都極其缺乏安全感的時代,有人說,一個人愛不愛你,就要看他肯不肯把時間花在你身上,他愛你,總會有時間陪你;他不愛你,他有時間滑手機、看電視,也沒時間陪你。更嚴重的是他有時間陪任何人,卻沒時間陪你。
我們從小說中,電視劇裡,常看到的臺詞就是,”我很忙”、”沒時間”!
自然,一次、二次沒時間是可能的,如果總是沒時間,那是決無可能的。
特別是現在微信、Line發達的時代,發個訊息、關心問候,也就幾秒鐘的事,再忙也不可能比總統還忙吧?總統還愛自己的家,與家人海邊游泳呢!
這位老總的“法定愛家日” 很有創意!!
“沒時間”、“忙”只不過是已經不愛的托詞罷了!
事實上,什麼樣的工作,什麼樣的應酬,時間皆可挪一挪,挪不動時,也可為家人補償,那個“法定愛家日”很有創意!
有的人,交往幾個月就厭倦了對方,有的人在一起幾十年,過馬路的時候還是要牽著對方的手。所謂最好的愛,不過就是老了,還要沒羞沒臊地膩歪在一起。
最好的幸福,就是
每一次你難過痛苦的時刻,他在。
每一個你歡喜愉悅的時刻,他在。
你需要或是不需要他的時刻,他都在。
願你一直往前走,他也都一直在你身邊。
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