孝順的溫度
惟雯說故事
請一定要認真看完它喔！好感人耶！
爸爸的生日到了，兒子趁著這個機會，歡喜的帶著老爸爸，全家去到一家很漂亮的特色蔬食餐廳吃晚餐。
老爸爸年邁體弱，挪著腳一步一步的走著，手還抖著，走得很吃力，
但兒子一邊扶著笑著說：「快到了，爸爸最棒了。」
在中間一段走道行走時，佔據了整個通道，擋到了後面的一群年輕人，
年輕人很不耐煩的說：「拜託，可以讓我先過嗎？」
老爸爸就先挪到旁邊，低下了頭，讓人先過。
年輕人還回頭瞪了他們一眼，露出了非常嫌惡的眼色。
兒子立刻擋在爸爸和年輕人間笑著說：「加油，我們的位置快到了。」
終於走到了位置。
老爸爸喘著氣掉著汗，好不容易坐了下來。
兒子點了幾道菜，還高興的說：「這些都是精緻的健康料理，有營養又沒有負擔的，可以儘管吃。」
菜陸續的上來了，老爸爸一邊吃著，一邊把食物撒在了襯衫和褲子上，
也掉得滿地都是，還不時的發出了一些的聲音。
看得出老爸爸很努力的想控制，但抖動的手完全不聽使喚，一匙的食物要送進嘴裡都很困難。
老爸爸不喜歡人家幫他，兒子就只能陪著爸爸邊聊天，還一邊流露著歡喜的神色一起用餐。
旁邊年輕的食客厭惡地看著他們，露出了一臉討厭的眼神。
但兒子卻無比的平靜，一直歡喜的陪著老爸爸，那些真誠的笑容，是一份自然誠摯的印記，絲毫不是裝出來的。
這種孝順的溫度，慢慢溫暖著這一整個餐廳……。
吃到了中間，老爸爸想要去上廁所，兒子亦步亦趨的扶著，
好不容易的走到了廁所，潔白亮麗的廁所，馬上濺出了尿黃流出的髒污，
老人無法控制的尿得到處都是。
兒子找到了拖把，就清理了一番。
又扶著老爸爸歡歡喜喜的回到座位。
前前後後所有的過程，直到吃完了晚餐，兒子始終堆著笑臉，絲毫不感覺得尷尬，默默細心的幫老爸爸，除去飯渣，擦掉污漬，給他整理好衣服，梳理好頭髮，戴好眼鏡。
「爸爸，您吃好了嗎？」
「好了！」
「那我們回家了！」又是一陣爽朗的笑聲洋溢出來，幸福的溫馨再一次的傾瀉而出，溫暖了整個餐廳。
當他們一家站起來，走到櫃檯時，整個餐廳的人都靜靜地看著他們。
兒子結完帳單，帶著爸爸一起要往外走時；就在這時，餐館裡面的一位老人叫住了兒子，問他說：「你有沒有覺得自己留下了什麼東西？」
兒子回答說：「沒有啊！先生，我沒有留下什麼。」
老人站了起來對他說：
「你給每個做兒子的留下了榜樣，留下了典範，留下了感恩；您給每個父親留下了希望，留下了尊嚴，留下了溫馨。感謝您留下了最珍貴的東西。」
餐館裡面大家都鴉雀無聲，然後大家點頭，嚮起了如雷的掌聲；……..！
你養我小，我養你老；你陪我長大，我陪你變老。
儒家禮記內則篇曰：「子事父母，婦適舅姑之所，及所，下氣怡聲。」
孩子服侍父母，媳婦到公婆的住所，要輕聲細語，和顏悅色。
孝敬順親，最難做到的孝道就是色難！也就是給父母好的臉色。
很多人願意養老人家，但絲毫不會給老人家好的臉色。
頂撞，嫌惡，鄙夷，不屑，討厭，都像一把把的利劍，深深的扎向父母的胸口，那種痛，比斷骨更錐心更剌骨。
父母養大子女實屬不易！
所以當父母年老時，對他們多點耐心與關照！
不要因他們的行動緩慢而嫌棄！
不要因他們吃飯時撒滿桌面而暴怒！
不要因他們尿尿無法控制而鄙夷！
畢竟，我們也是這樣長大的，沒有一人是不會變老的。
分享網路教育事實好文章！值得我們好好深思啊！
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