成為別人生命中的貴人
楊旭平
真正的大師並不是擁有最多學生的人，而是協助最多人成為大師的人。真正的領袖也不是擁有最多追隨者的人，而是協助最多人成為領袖的人。
未來成功的新典範：不在於你『超越多少人』，而是協助了多少人不斷超越自己。真所謂：「格局決定結局、態度決定高度」！
上海有一家電器公司的有獎徵答題目為：
「上海到倫敦要怎麼去才好玩？」
第一特獎是四十吋彩色電視機。
參與這個活動的情況異常熱烈，書信有如雪片般地飛來。
競逐者來至全國各地，其中不乏教授、大學生、上班族甚至家庭主婦等，答案是無所不包，創意是無奇不有。
決選的結果出乎意表：是由一個小學生雀屏中選。
他的答案很簡單：「跟好朋友一起去最好玩。」
的確，誠如評審給於一致的評價：分享的快樂，遠勝過獨自的擁有。
再看看人猿泰山為什麼被稱為森林之王呢？
論力氣，它比不過大象；比速度，它比不過獅子與老虎；比靈敏，猴子更有過之而無不及。
泰山之所以稱王，並不是依賴武力與體力，他靠的是「人際關係」！
他和每種動物交朋友，關心他們、也照顧他們，所以大家都喜歡他。
所以當泰山需要急難救助時，大叫一聲：「喔耶喔！」
每隻動物都會挺身而出，樂意幫忙他。
泰山的叢林法則，其實也可以運用到現實的社會中，我們可以發現，真正成功的人，絕不只靠自身的實力，其實他更懂得整合人際資源，進而創造更多價值（劉邦兄的格局）。
未來成功的新典範：不在你贏過多少人，而在於你幫過多少人。
你幫過的人愈多，儲蓄的人脈愈廣，那麼你成功的機會就愈大。
記得欣賞你周邊人的優點，你能讓他們更卓越。
記得包容你周邊人的缺點，你能讓他們更完美。
容愛……
- 待人要有包容的心 —海納百川, 有容乃大; 壁立千仞, 無欲則剛。
- 陳之藩先生在他的著名散文《謝天》當中，曾生動地描述老祖母感恩謝天的心情。他的祖母覺得在世界上要感謝的人實在太多了，只有謝天才能表達我們對社會上每一個人的感激。
陳之藩先生認為「謝天」並不是真的感謝神靈而是表達對很多「人」的感謝。因為「無論什麼事情，得之於人者太多，出之於己者太少，因為需要感謝的人太多了，就感謝天吧！」
所以，我們更應該培養「功成不居」的美德。
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