人生來日方長

人生來日方長

惟雯說故事

 

人生有時不需要成為什麼英雄豪傑,只需要認清人生一些事實,認清才能放下,放下才能輕盈,是人生就能活得如意。

 

誠如羅曼羅蘭說過:「世界上只有一種英雄主義,就是認清生活的真相後依然熱愛生活。」

 

于丹老師曾經分享過一次經歷:

 

她有次骨折去醫院,遇到了一位相當聊得來的醫生—張主任,
治療期間他們成了很好的朋友。

 

張主任告訴她,腿裡埋了釘子,一年後要來找他取出來。

後來,于丹忙於工作沒有按時去。

張主任幾次提醒,她也想著:還有時間,還有機會。

沒想到張主任在一次治療中因公殉職了,她這一拖,竟成了與摯友的永別。

 

人生最大的錯覺啊,就是誤以為來日方長,最後才驚覺,世事無常。

 

有人仔細算了一筆人生賬:

如果人平均一生的壽命是78年,

我們花28.3年睡覺,花掉三分之一的時間;

一天工作8小時,花掉我們一生中的10.5年,再加上加班、通勤,時間更多;花在社交娛樂、人際相處的時間佔據了9.5年;

加上必要的吃飯睡覺零零散散的時間,

真正可以自由支配的時間只有短短9年而已。

 

這意味著活到四十歲之後,屬於我們的時間寥寥無幾了,哪有那麼多來日方長呢,很多事現在不做以後真的沒機會了。

 

人最應該擁有的,就是對時間的敬畏感。

多花點時間陪陪身邊的人,陪父母說話,陪愛人吃飯,陪孩子成長,

時間,千萬不要捨不得花在重要的人身上。

 

答應朋友的約定,一個個實現。

哪怕是逛一次街,打一場球,空下來就約了去做。

 

人這一生,總是在等,等將來、等不忙、等下次;

等有時間、等有條件、等有錢了;

等到最後,等沒了健康,等沒了機會,等沒了選擇;

等來了遺憾,等來了後悔。

 

人生來日方長錯覺,願你早些看清,活得更通透。

等命運收回生命的那一刻還能說句:「我享受夠了。」

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