人間行腳179：雨中狂奔的人生態度
惟雯說故事
如果你碰到一場大雨，很大的雨，更要命的是你沒有傘，你會怎麼辦，是雨中狂奔呢？還是漫步雨中？
這讓我想起了一個表面上很有哲理的故事：
有兩個人在街上閒逛，突然天空下起了大雨，其中一個路人甲拔腿就跑，而路人乙卻不為所動，還是堅持原來的步調。
路人甲很好奇的問：你為什麼不跑呢？
路人乙回答說：為什麼要跑，難道前面就沒有雨了嗎？既然都是在雨中，我又為什麼要浪費力氣去跑呢？
路人甲卻反而啞口無言。
易地而處，你會是誰，是努力奔跑的路人甲？還是淡定如初的路人乙？他們兩個，是誰⋯⋯錯了？
其實他們都沒有錯，唯一不同的，只不過是人生的態度不同而已。
其實人生並沒有對錯，每一步都是自己的選擇，也會帶來相應的結果，而不同之處就是在於，我們要為我們自己造成的結果負責而已，而這個結果就是我們的不一樣的人生。
路人甲的人生相對是積極，他最後的結果可能也是全身濕透，和路人乙沒有區別，但不同是他努力去爭取了，他可能會得到更好的結果，那就是衣服只是濕了一點，還可以繼續穿，也不影響他正常的交際活動；而路人乙的人生態度就顯得消極和隨遇而安了，他對不努力奔跑的結果瞭如指掌，但是他選擇了接受。
期待什麼樣的結果，就會得到心中所想要的，所以路人乙濕透全身的可能是百分百，沒有任何選擇的餘地。這就是他們的不同，路人甲還有機會，路人乙命中註定濕透全身。
奔跑的路人甲意味著：沒有後悔抱怨，勇敢的面對，接受挑戰，努力爭取，無所畏懼，心中充滿理想，對人生充滿希望，懂得為自己創造機會，積極主動。
漫步的路人乙意味著：消極被動妥協，隨遇而安，一眼可以望到頭的人生，逆來順受，不思進取等。
人生之所以存在不同，是因為我們的想法不同，是因為我們對機會和挑戰的定義不同，是選擇勇敢的面對，還是選擇消極的逃避？
就結果而言，我們不敢絕對的判斷，但是這兩種生活卻告訴我們一個很明白的道理，第一種人還有希望，第二種人卻只是聽天由命。
佛說：預知前世因，今生受者是；預知來世果，今生做者是。
今天得到的生活和成就，就是昨天努力的結果；明天想要的生活和成就，今天的努力和進取就是決定因素。這就是佛家常說的因果循環。
在現實生活中，絕大多數人如你我一樣，都是沒有傘、卻剛好碰到大雨的孩子，而我們都很平凡，平凡到這個世界，簡直感覺不到我們的存在。
大凡我們都只是一個平凡生活中的張三李四，通常，老天爺對我們這些凡夫俗子總是特別的“照顧”，我們在人生的路上碰到的雨都會比別人大一些。
而很多過來的人告訴我們說，這是老天爺在考驗我們，叫做：“天降大任於雖然也，必先苦其心志，勞其筋骨，餓其體膚，空乏其身…”，於是我們還很高興的去迎接每次挑戰，去接受每一個刻骨銘心的考驗，一次又一次，成功、失敗，淚水和汗水交織體會，不是我們沒有選擇，只是我們都是沒有傘的孩子，而我們選擇了努力奔跑。雖然我們是很平凡的一群，但是我們其實是在向著不平凡而努力。
有人說：人生要學會知足，但是不要輕易滿足。
知足的人生會讓我們體會到什麼是幸福，什麼東西才值得我們真心的去珍惜；而不滿足會告訴我們，其實我們還可以做得更好，還可以更進一步，也許我們還有更大的機會。
一如在雨中奔跑的孩子，我們的知足是我們至少還可以奔跑，這比起很多坐輪椅的人來說，無疑是世界上最幸福的事情了，但是我們不要滿足於此，我們更希望有自己的一片晴空，我們努力的向前奔跑，奔向那片自由的天空。
奔跑，不單是一種能力，更是一種態度，決定你人生高度的態度。
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