在懂你的人群中散步
惟雯說故事
這個世界上總有20%的人,就是莫名喜歡你,也總有20%的人,莫名討厭你,還有一些人,處於中立狀態。
既然世界上總有20%的人,就是莫名其妙的討厭你。如果每天把關注點放在他們身上,只會煩惱不斷。
但是,如果嘗試著把關注點放在20%的喜歡你的人身上,只在懂你的人群中散步,每天便如沐春風。
有時,有太多人被請進生命裡。據說:
我們的一生會遇到過8263563人;
會打招呼的是39778人;
會和3619人熟悉;
會和275人親近。
但最終,大部分的人都會失散在人海。
隨著時間,你會發現,雖然在同一個十字路口等待紅綠燈,但往相同方向的人總是越來越少。
有段話也說得很好:
人生其實像一條從寬闊的平原走進森林的路。在平原上同伴可以結夥而行,歡樂地前推後擠。
可一旦進入森林,草叢和荊棘擋路,情形就變了,各人專心走各人的路,尋找各人的方向。
所以,人世間的事情勉強終歸不能如意,凡事只需要做兩點就足夠:
1、不懂你的人,不必強求。
有緣的人,總是在花好月圓的時刻相遇,在對的時間裡明白應該明白的事,不多也不少,不早也不遲。
世間這麼多人,只要有1%的人懂你,足夠了,選擇同頻道的人在一起,人生會變得非常的簡單快樂。
2、不懂的東西和不理解的事物,保持一顆初心,去探索和接納。
因為,也許他們站的位置我們沒有去過,他們看見的事物我們沒有看見。打開思維、心智、心靈,給自己一雙澄澈的眼睛,接納所有的不同,像孩子一般懷著好奇心去探索。
周國平曾說:人生有三次成長:
一是發現自己不再是世界中心的時候,
二是發現再怎麼努力也無能為力的時候,
三是接受自己的平凡並去享受平凡的時候。
把愛留給疼你的人,把心留給懂你的人,願你餘生,和懂你的人一起散步。
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