培養心靈的自癒能力
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一、如何培養心靈的自癒能力？
想要培養心靈的自癒能力，是有方法的，從一開始了解生命本無常，平靜面對，到接受自己的感覺、進而正向肯定自己的努力，發現原來無常是上天送來的禮物。
1、了解生命本無常
美國亞利桑納整合醫學中心計畫負責人威爾醫師解釋說，生病時，平靜下來不掙扎，並不代表放棄找尋希望，而是為了超越疾病，接受生命中的一切狀況，包括無常。
婚姻與家族治療博士吳熙琄，在美國唸愛荷華大學時，經歷911攻擊事件，有人在生命最後一刻，被埋在雙子星大廈時，打電話留言給妻子，「我非常愛妳，我要妳幸福，祝福你和孩子好好過日子，」並不像其他人留下恐懼或憤怒留言。吳熙琄說，「我們要培養一種生命的視野，瞭解生命本無常，才能體會生命的珍貴。」
2、感受自己的感覺
當面臨重大疾病，首先要處理的是情緒，學會把情緒表達出來，無論是恐懼、悲傷、憤怒。清楚地描述自己的感受，可以幫助你和自己在一起。
「去感受自己的感覺，害怕就害怕，累就是累，不去壓制它，」吳熙琄說。
史丹佛大學精神醫學專家斯匹格（Spiegel）將乳癌轉移的病人分成兩組，一組只接受標準的乳癌治療，另一組還加入每週一次的支持團體。
「我想知道，我是否能活著看我兒子高中畢業，或看到我女兒結婚，」一位乳癌病人在團體裡抒發自己的恐懼。研究進行後發現，主動分享感受的團體成員比對照組多活了一倍的時間。
3、肯定自己的努力
「在苦難中，看到自己不容易的地方，稱讚自己，」吳熙說，不要送出「我沒用」、「我很失敗」的訊息，看到自己在苦難中的努力與堅強，感受到自己的寶貴。
《健康，這樣想就對了》書裡提到一個案例，強烈下背痛患者羅莉每天早上都站在鏡子面前稱 讚自己的身體，而不是挑毛病，「我想要愛身體所能給我的，而不是將精力放在疼痛或我不喜歡的地方」羅莉說。雖然痛還在，但她比較能與痛共存活下去。
4、將疾病視為一個禮物
每一個重大的手術或疾病都有心靈轉變的時刻，危機會製造脆弱與敏感的窗口，質疑我們已經成就的一切。但也可能成為一個機會，使我們得到啟發。「要自我覺察疾病背後的意義，」自然醫學博士王佑驊說。
威爾醫師在《自癒力》裡講到他的日本朋友寺山信一郎的故事，他性靈覺醒，帶病修行，展現更高的力量。
寺山是一位細胞學家也是管理顧問，他睡得很少，每天喝10∼12杯咖啡，縱情於牛排與甜食，但所有的醫學檢驗都是正常。直到他疲勞到無法工作的地步時，進一步檢查發現右腎已經擴大，X光檢驗是腫瘤。
按照日本慣例，並不讓病人得知真正的病情，醫院瞞著他進行激烈的化學治療，這些注射讓他嘔吐、鬍子變白、頭髮掉落。後來又進行放射線治療，使他很疲勞，也失去胃口。夜裡，他夢到自己的葬禮。
他想呼吸新鮮空氣，便爬到醫院屋頂，卻造成騷動，醫院以為他要自殺，要他守規矩或離開。寺山迅速簽了出院文件回家，有人向他介紹長壽飲食療法，要吃糙米，愛好美食的寺山想都不想。
隔天，寺山醒來，感受到一股很想看到日出的慾望，他爬到公寓頂樓，感覺一道光線射入他胸膛，能量擴散到全身，接著他哭了起來，「我很高興我還活著」。
然後他開始吃糙米，每天期盼到屋頂看太陽的儀式，也到一家僻靜中心靜養，還每天都到森林裡散步，並開始練大提琴，他已經很多年沒練了。
「我開始感受到體內與周遭自然的痊癒力量，我開始明白我創造了自己的癌症，我也因此明白，我必須愛我的癌症，它是我的一部份，我必須愛整個我。」
「苦、大病、大挫折都是生命的禮物，傷口下才看到真正的力量，」心靈療癒工作者賴佩霞說。
二、平日滋養性靈
即使在平日，沒有病痛時，依舊可以透過靈性的修持，讓自己心理更健康。
科學家早就證實，壓力、焦慮、憂鬱有害健康，減少壓力荷爾蒙可體松，可以提升免疫球蛋白，活化免疫系統。快 樂可以延長心臟病人的壽命，減少中風的機率，緩和過敏反應，增強感冒的抵抗力。
「不在有陽光的日子哭泣，」 張明志醫師說，提升心靈的健康，就彷彿拿到了去迪士尼樂園的地圖。
愈來愈多人分享滋養性靈的方法，從眾所皆知的打坐冥想，到神經學家親身經歷驗證的「等待90秒不生氣」。
1、兩分鐘冥想就有效
如果有一種藥，每天只要一顆就可以減輕焦慮，對生活更滿意，這種藥是純天然、而且免費，你吃不吃？
世上真有這種藥丸，就是冥想。
許多宗教都瞭解冥想的力量，每種宗教有不同的方式，但共通點都是：有意識地將腦袋放空，專注凝神。
冥想已從放鬆壓力，轉為預防、延緩心臟病、高血壓、偏頭痛、甚至癌症。哈佛醫學院心臟學家班森訓練病人每天冥想20分鐘，病人血壓降低、心跳次數減少、氧氣消耗量是平常17％。
只需要一張椅子，靜靜坐著，聽起來很簡單，只要試過的人都知道困難，一開始會因 為無法改變任心意遊蕩的習慣，不斷失敗。
印度瑞虛凱詩拉瑪靜修中心主席韋達帕芳堤（Veda Bharati）提出兩分鐘禪修法。在等公車、用餐前、開會前，站著、坐著都行，背頸頭打直，用橫隔膜呼吸，氣息從鼻孔進出，只要把散逸的心收回，把一切放下。
2、覺知負面情緒，90秒不生 氣
「憤怒和別人無關，是因為自己內在有一個按鈕，是怎樣就怎樣，」賴佩霞說。
左腦中風的神經解剖學家吉兒•泰勒（Jill Bolte Taylor）復原後，花了很大的努力，有意識地選擇不要讓某些舊迴路死灰復燃，以便馬上回到平靜的右腦。
由於對腦神經的瞭解，她知道憤怒情緒只要一觸動，腦中釋放的化學物質就會洶湧通過全身，但化學成分只要90秒就會從血液中消失，所以要是90秒後，她還在生氣，表示她選擇讓迴路繼續運轉，如果不，她就讓這個反應通過，回到當下。
她把負面情緒視為打噴嚏一樣，覺知地面對自己內在火焰，慈悲地對待自己。
3、釋放五感，重建「健康感」
視覺、聽覺、嗅覺、觸覺、味覺五感是人類生存重要的裝置，遠古時候，人類用敵人的氣息來察覺危險。但現在科技與時間的 壓力，使人類做什麼都很快，匆促地囫圇地讓五感官浮光掠影。
神經解剖學家吉兒在左腦中風後，發現逗留在感官迴路的基礎生理反應中很有用，例如品嚐美 食，吃、喝、感覺愉悅都是發生在當下，她用心記住五感，以及內心深處的感受，幫自己找到途徑回到右腦。相信我們的大腦可以 取代不要的思考模式，幫助我們當下經歷內在的平靜。
其實我們平日就有經驗，當身體疲累時，身體會發出求救的聲音，當內心生病時，腦子的某個部位也會有感覺，相信五感，傾聽發自身體的聲音，就會發現自己具備「健康感」，這是身心靈自癒能力的基礎。
經歷疾病的痛苦或許不是我們能選擇的，但「不被生命的苦難綁架，溫柔地和自己在一起，卻是我們能做的，」吳熙琄說。
三、正向情緒提高生產力
現在心理學上已知：冷漠負面的情緒會激發出戰鬥的思考方式。這個戰鬥的思考方式會使人只看到缺點，看不見優點，就像當人們不喜歡一個人時，就會集中注意力去挑他的毛病，而這個毛病會在腦海中放大，最後變成十惡不赦。
相反的，愉悅的心情會使人不計較小事，心胸變大，比較有創造力，更奇怪的是，記憶力會變好。
有研究發現，快樂會提升生產力，心情好的時候在解字謎、問題解決的實驗表現都比較好，解不出來時也比較有耐心，可以堅持下去。也就是說，中國人常說的「人逢喜事精神爽」是有道理的。
所以正向情緒在演化上是有其目的，它擴展人們的視野（心情不好時，找東西常視而不見）；提升人們的智慧；增加人脈（所有人都喜歡跟心情好的人說話，沒有人喜歡聽別人訴苦），使別人喜歡我們，在危難時願意伸出援手；最重要的是它增加人們的容忍度（心情好時比較能接受新的想法和新的經驗），容忍度是領袖魅力的基本條件，它使人在事業上成功。
最近有研究報告發現，先給272名職員正向情緒的測驗，然後追蹤他們18個月的工作表現。結果正向情緒分數高的人，老闆對他的滿意度較高，薪水也拿得多。
澳洲的一個研究發現，快樂的人比較容易找到工作，薪水也高，表現也好。所以，營造一個快樂和諧的工作 環境非常的重要，公司追求的不外生產力和創造力，既然心情愉快的人生產力和創造力都比較好，老闆怎可因小失大，不去改善辦 公的環境？
其實，改善不一定要很多錢，只要肯花心思就可以了。
歐洲許多國家窗戶外面都有花台，種有非 洲櫻或秋海棠，這些是很便宜，很容易長的植物，花季很長，當一排排開在窗台上時，萬紫千紅非常的美觀、有生氣，給遊客一個 安和樂利的感覺。相信很多人都認為瑞士是個世外桃源，很喜歡去那裡度假。
我們一生有三分之一的時間花在工作上，應該花點精神去創造一個愉悅的工作環境，這個投資對 自己的健康，對老闆的生產力都是絕對值得的。
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