圍牆上的釘子
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有一個壞脾氣的男孩，他父親給了他一袋釘子。
並且告訴他，每當他發脾氣的時候，就在後院的圍牆上釘一根釘子。
第一天，這個男孩在圍牆上釘下了37根釘子。
慢慢的，他發現每天釘下的數量減少了。
慢慢的，他也發現控制自己的脾氣，要比釘下那些釘子容易。
於是，有一天，這個男孩再也不會失去耐性，亂發脾氣了。
他告訴父親這件事情。父親又說，那從現在開始，每當他能控制自己脾氣的時候，就可從圍牆上拔出一根釘子。
一天天過去了，最後男孩告訴他的父親，他終於把所有釘子都給拔出來了。
父親握著他的手，來到後院說：“你做得很好，我的好孩子，但是看看那些圍牆上的洞。這些圍牆將永遠不能回復到從前的樣子。你生氣的時候，說的話就像這些釘子一樣留下疤痕。如果你拿刀子捅別人一刀，不管你說了多少次對不起，那個傷口將永遠存在。話語的傷痛就像真實的傷痛一樣，令人無法承受。”
默想：
人與人之間常常因為一些無法釋懷的堅持，而造成永遠的傷害。
如果我們都能從自己做起，開始寬容地看待他人，相信你一定能收到許多意想不到的結果。
為別人開啟一扇窗，也就是讓自己看到更完整的天空。
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